Why are more and more divorces among the post-80s generation

The increase in divorce rates among the post-80s generation is mainly related to factors such as changes in social attitudes, increased economic pressure, changes in marriage expectations, awakening of individual consciousness, and transformation of family structure.

1. Social Concept Transformation

Traditional marriage concepts are gradually fading, and society's tolerance for divorce has significantly increased. The post-80s generation grew up after the reform and opening up, and is more likely to accept the value orientation of prioritizing personal happiness. When there are irreconcilable conflicts in marriage, the psychological burden of choosing to end the relationship is reduced. The simplification of legal procedures has also lowered the threshold for divorce, and the agreement based divorce system makes it more convenient to dissolve marital relationships.

2. Increased economic pressure

The cost of living, such as housing, education, and healthcare, continues to rise, and dual income families generally face the dual pressure of workplace competition and parenting responsibilities. Economic independence enables women to no longer rely on marriage for survival. When economic disputes or conflicts in consumer attitudes intensify, material pressure may become the trigger for marital breakdown. Some couples have irreconcilable differences over property distribution issues.

3. Changes in Marriage Expectations

This generation has significantly increased their emotional needs for marriage, emphasizing more on spiritual compatibility and common growth. The growth experience under the one-child policy has led some people to lack experience in dealing with intimate relationship conflicts. When there is a gap between real marriage and idealized expectations, their tolerance is significantly reduced. The view of marriage and love has shifted from a community of life to an emotional community, and emotional satisfaction has become an important indicator for maintaining marriage.

4. Awakening of Individual Consciousness

The demand for self-worth realization has prompted more people to refuse low-quality marriages. The improvement of women's education level has led to a strengthening of gender equality awareness, and a decrease in the tolerance threshold for behaviors such as domestic violence and cold violence. The popularity of social media has expanded the scope of interpersonal comparison, and some people make divorce decisions by reassessing the quality of their marriage.

5. Transformation of Family Structure

The core family replaces the traditional large family model, and couples need to independently cope with more life challenges. The reduced involvement of elders may result in a lack of buffer zone for marital conflicts, and differences in parenting responsibilities may escalate into ongoing conflicts. The increase in migrant population has led to an increase in long-distance marriages, and spatial isolation has exacerbated emotional alienation. In the face of changes in marital relationships, both spouses can enhance their understanding through regular and candid communication, establishing common life goals, and reasonably allocating family responsibilities. Seek professional marriage counseling assistance when necessary and learn conflict resolution skills. Society should improve the psychological support system after divorce, help parties transition smoothly, and strengthen marriage and love education to guide young people to establish rational marriage expectations. Maintaining a balance between economic independence and emotional investment, cultivating common interests and hobbies, all contribute to maintaining marital stability.