Trial Divorce: In order to avoid the wrong marriage and divorce, one must resort to any means necessary

Trial divorce is a buffering method for marital relationships, usually referring to the temporary separation of spouses without going through legal divorce procedures, mainly used to evaluate whether the marriage is worth continuing to maintain. This approach may help avoid impulsive divorce, but there is also a risk of exacerbating conflicts. The core purpose of divorce trial is to allow both parties to calmly reflect on the true state of marriage through the separation of physical distance and psychological space. Couples can objectively evaluate their emotional foundation, root causes of conflicts, and future possibilities during the trial divorce period. In some cases, this temporary separation can indeed help both parties rediscover each other's value and repair damaged relationships. During the trial divorce, it is recommended to maintain moderate contact and seek professional help such as psychological counseling to analyze the essence of the problem. Excessive reliance on trial divorce may evolve into an excuse to avoid problems. When one party uses trial divorce as a transitional measure for divorce, it may exacerbate the other party's anxiety and insecurity. Long term ambiguous marital status can lead to emotional depletion, especially when there is domestic violence or significant differences in principles, and attempting divorce can actually delay the resolution of the problem. In this situation, it is even more important to clarify the direction of the marriage and avoid falling into a prolonged emotional tug of war. During the trial divorce period, it is recommended to establish clear time limits and rules for getting along, and seek professional guidance from marriage and family counselors if necessary. Regardless of the final choice of reconciliation or divorce, a rational decision should be made through sufficient communication, paying attention to protecting the mental health of children and properly handling practical issues such as property. The handling of marital relationships requires a balance between emotional needs and practical considerations to avoid causing greater harm due to delayed decision-making.