Middle aged women cannot control themselves after being tempted

When middle-aged women are caught in an emotional vortex, their bodies will react before reason. Those heart signals that were thought to be perfectly hidden have actually been "betrayed" by physiological mechanisms a long time ago.

1. The physiological response is more honest than the mouth

1. The pupils unconsciously dilate

When seeing the object of interest, the pupils will dilate by 45% within 0.3 seconds. This uncontrolled physiological response cannot even conceal the most seasoned poker face.

2. Failure of temperature regulation system

When the room temperature is suitable, suddenly the cheeks become hot or the palms sweat. This is a vasodilation phenomenon caused by a surge in adrenaline, which can be called the most honest "emotional thermometer".

3. Automatic switching of sound frequency

Compared with regular conversations, women's tone will naturally increase by 8-12 hertz when talking to their crush. This change completely bypasses the conscious layer of the brain and belongs to the primitive mating instinct.

2. Behavioral pattern malfunction

1. Time perception distortion

When dating, I always feel like time passes quickly, but in fact, the excessive secretion of dopamine interferes with the brain's timing function. This "time flies" experience is an important indicator for judging one's heart rate.

2. Selective enhancement of memory system

can remember small details casually mentioned by the other person, but forget important schedules. The hippocampus automatically marks relevant memories as' important information '.

3. Sudden change in consumption habits

Suddenly paying attention to new hairstyles and trying new fragrances. Mirror neurons can encourage women to subconsciously imitate the aesthetic preferences of their heartthrob.

3. Hidden manipulation of hormones

1. Sudden drop in serotonin levels

This neurotransmitter that regulates emotions decreases by 40%, leading to symptoms similar to mild obsessive-compulsive disorder, such as repeatedly checking phone messages.

2. Increased secretion of oxytocin [SEP], a substance known as the "hug hormone," increases levels and creates a strong desire to share, from childhood memories to work-related trivialities.

3. Abnormal fluctuations in stress hormones

Cortisol levels are like riding a roller coaster, rising both in anticipation of meeting and rapidly falling back during interactions, creating a special sense of pleasure.

4. Unique Performance of Mature Women

1. Failure of Risk Assessment System

The usually shrewd decision-making ability is temporarily closed, and they are more willing to try new things. This is the "emotional channel" set up by the brain to reduce psychological defense.

2. Extraordinary display of empathy

can keenly detect emotional changes that the other person has not expressed, and the threat warning function of the amygdala is selectively disabled.

3. The automatic degradation of defense mechanisms

significantly enhances the tolerance of certain lifestyle habits, which is a subtle influence of ancient reproductive instincts on modern brains.

These reactions are like pre installed physiological programs, independent of age and experience. The next time you discover these 'faults' in yourself, why not accept the emotional experience of this gift of life with equanimity. The beauty of middle-aged heartthrob lies precisely in the uncontrolled reality and liveliness.