Men do not want to marry women after long-term cohabitation

Men who do not want to marry women after long-term cohabitation may be due to changes in emotional needs, differences in marriage concepts, or relationship burnout. Long term cohabitation may weaken the sense of urgency in marriage, and may also expose conflicting values between both parties, depending on their relationship status and personal motivations. In long-term cohabitation relationships, men's resistance to marriage is often related to staged changes in emotional investment. After the intimate relationship enters a stable period, some men may view cohabitation as an alternative mode of marriage, believing that legal form will not change the substantive relationship. This cognition may stem from avoidance of marital responsibilities or satisfaction with existing living conditions. The influence of economic pressure and the marriage mode of the original family can also reduce the willingness to get married, especially when cohabitation has met emotional and physiological needs, some individuals may lack the motivation to promote the relationship. In rare cases, there may be implicit emotional alienation or fear of commitment. Long term interaction may amplify differences in lifestyle habits, and unresolved core conflicts will gradually consume the willingness to get married. Certain personality traits, such as avoidant attachment, can lead to withdrawal behavior as relationships deepen. The dissolution of male marital pressure by social culture may also have an impact. When cohabitation becomes a common phenomenon, some individuals may delay or give up their marriage commitments. However, it should be noted that this is different from intentional procrastination, as it is more of a manifestation of both parties' unsynchronized understanding of the relationship.

It is recommended to clarify the expectations of both parties through in-depth communication and distinguish between temporary hesitation and fundamental differences. We can explore together the meaning of marriage to each other and seek partner counseling if necessary. Be careful not to equate cohabitation with trial marriage, as the quality of the relationship depends on sustained emotional investment and problem-solving skills. Maintaining an independent social circle and personal growth space helps to keep relationships fresh and marriage intentions alive.