I heard that dating makes people stupid. Does dating make people smarter

Dating can make people both stupid and smart, and the specific effects vary from person to person. The common cognitive changes in love mainly include scattered attention, fluctuating decision-making ability, improved emotional regulation ability, enhanced empathy ability, and changes in long-term goal planning. In the early stages of love, the brain secretes large amounts of substances such as dopamine and phenylethylamine, which may cause people to overly focus on their partners and ignore other affairs, leading to a decrease in short-term work efficiency or weakened judgment. Some people may experience temporary memory loss, especially easily forgetting information unrelated to their partner. This state usually lasts for several months to six months, gradually easing as the relationship stabilizes. Long term stable intimate relationships may promote cognitive function development. Deep communication between partners can activate the brain's mirror neuron system, enhance language expression and empathy abilities. When solving problems together, the complementary thinking patterns of both parties may stimulate creative thinking. Research shows that married individuals perform better than single individuals in complex decision tests, and this difference may be related to the psychological stability brought about by emotional support.

It is recommended to maintain a moderately independent social circle and hobbies in love, and avoid excessive emotional dependence. Regular cognitive training such as reading and board games can help balance the impact of love on the brain. If there is persistent attention deficit or decreased judgment, psychological counseling can be sought to assess the health of the relationship.