Why are more and more women unwilling to get married?

While aunts and uncles are still asking when they will get married, more and more post-90s girls have quietly uninstalled their dating apps. According to data from a certain marriage and dating platform, the registration volume of women aged 25-35 has decreased by 40% in three years, which is much more complex than "high vision".

1. Confidence in Economic Independence

1. Workplace Income Supports Choice

In 2023, the proportion of women buying houses will reach 32%, a historic high. When one can afford to pay off their mortgage, marriage has transformed from a "survival necessity" to a "lifestyle choice question".

2. Precise targeting of the consumer market

From single person dining restaurants to single person apartments, the commercial society has already laid out a complete service chain for independent women, greatly diluting the practical value of traditional marriage.

2. Awakening of Cognitive Upgrading

1. Clarifying Marriage Cost Accounting

Young women are starting to use Excel to make marital income and expenditure statements: birth injuries, workplace discrimination, emotional labor These previously invisible costs are now being quantitatively evaluated.

2. Dear The reconstruction of the standard for secret relationships

shows that 68% of women believe that "spiritual resonance" is more important than "condition matching" in the post-2000 marriage and love survey. When the probability of encountering a soulmate is lower than drawing SSR cards, many people choose to temporarily abandon the game.

III. Improvement of Social Support

1. Sense of Security in the Elderly Care System

The popularity rate of personal pension accounts has reached 47%, and the gradual improvement of the social security system has weakened the traditional marriage motivation of "raising children to support old age".

2. The stigma of being single is gradually fading.

The number of women living alone in first tier cities has increased by 2.3 times in the past five years, and being single is becoming one of the options for a normal life instead of being an outsider.

Fourth, intergenerational trauma warning

1. Witnessing the fatigue of parents' marriage

Numerous studies have shown that children from unhappy families are more cautious when entering into marriage. This generation of young people is the first group to witness a large-scale divorce wave.

2. Reflection on Gender Roles

When the images of mothers doing household chores while working are deeply ingrained in memory, young women instinctively become wary of their roles as "wives" and "mothers".

V. The cognitive magnifying glass of the Internet

1. The visibility of failure cases

is updated every day The proportion of anti marriage content pushed by algorithms to unmarried women is as high as 62%, which is a hot topic of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

2. Impact of Diverse Life Samples

Social media showcases new ways of living such as unmarried travel and best friend retirement, completely breaking the monopoly of traditional marriage.

Marriage is never a Single choice question question, but the last open discussion question in the life examination paper. There is no standard answer for choosing to be single or married, it is important to know what colors of colored pens are in your pencil case. When society finally allows women to say 'don't want' out loud, it is a progress in itself.