Marriage is like opening a blind box - some people reveal limited edition happiness, while others reveal hidden troubles. Recently, there has been a discussion in my best friend group about why she was a little fairy before marriage and became an all-around warrior after marriage? Let's use a magnifying glass to see the real changes that marriage has brought to modern women.
1. The biological clock in the body is reset
1. The sleep mode is forced to be adjusted [SEP]. Before marriage, one can sleep until they wake up naturally, and after marriage, they should cooperate with the family's daily routine. Research has found that the average sleep time of women after marriage decreases by 47 minutes, but the proportion of deep sleep actually increases - this is the "fragmented sleep ability" trained by life.
2. The God of Immunity Qi Enhanced
often needs to take care of sick family members, and the body automatically upgrades its defense system. Data shows that married women have a 23% lower frequency of colds compared to single women, but a 15% increase in migraine attacks.
2. Brain completes system upgrade
1. Increased multitasking ability
Able to process work emails while tutoring assignments, and also remember the dishes in the fridge. Functional magnetic resonance imaging shows a significant increase in the thickness of the prefrontal cortex in married women, which is a long-term practice of multitasking.
2. Memory capacity is forced to expand.
Remember the parents in law's birthday, the time of the child's vaccine, and the date of property fee payment The hippocampus is like an expanded hard drive, storing the life data of the whole family.
3. Breaking through the limit of emotional management ability
1. Significant increase in anger threshold
Faced with toys on the ground, he can remain calm and composed, but when his husband throws socks around, he just sighs. This' Buddha like mentality 'is actually the result of training the prefrontal cortex to suppress the amygdala.
2. More sensitive perception of happiness
A child's hug can offset all day fatigue, which is the result of the brain's reward system being reprogrammed. The dopamine secretion pattern has become simpler and more efficient.
4. Social Skills Point Full Talent Tree
1. Evolution of Interpersonal relationship Processing Ability
To balance the relationship between parents and in laws, as well as to deal with the open and hidden struggles in the parent group. Unconsciously, I have developed the survival skill of "speaking human language when meeting people and ghost language when encountering ghosts".
2. His ability to read words and expressions has made rapid progress.
His husband knows he wants to play games with just one glance, and his child pouts to understand that he wants snacks. The mirror neuron system is fully developed in marital life.
5. Unexpectedly acquired hidden skills
1. Transformed into a home first aid worker
From handling bumps to fever care, unconsciously accumulated professional knowledge comparable to that of a nurse. This is a "medical crash course" included as a bonus for marriage.
2. Upgrade Financial Actuary
to plan mortgage and car loans, as well as carefully calculate daily expenses. Mathematical ability is advancing rapidly in daily necessities, and mental arithmetic speed is comparable to that of a cash register. Marriage is like a wonderful chemical reaction that turns a girl like a carbonated drink into a woman like a rich red wine. These changes are not compromises, but another bloom of vitality. Every married woman is undergoing a unique evolutionary journey, writing the survival wisdom of modern marriage in her own way.
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