The period of coldness after a boy's ambiguous relationship

The frigidity period after a boy's ambiguous relationship is usually a psychological defense manifestation during the transitional stage of the relationship, which may stem from withdrawal from exploration, changes in needs, or emotional pressure. Common reasons include diminishing novelty, uncertainty anxiety, emergence of alternative partners, emotional avoidance tendencies, and self space needs. The sudden coldness during the ambiguous period is often related to the activation of male psychological defense mechanisms. When the relationship between the two parties is not clear, some men may voluntarily withdraw due to fear of injury, testing the other party's reaction by reducing their investment. This withdrawal behavior may be accompanied by anxious attachment traits, manifested as a contradictory state of both longing for intimacy and fear of rejection. Workplace stress or family trauma may also trigger avoidance behavior, causing men to use apathy to alleviate emotional stress. In rare cases, coldness implies the termination of a relationship. When men come into contact with multiple ambiguous partners at the same time, attention shift can lead to a decrease in the quality of interaction. The avoidant personality with excessive self-protection may end relationships with coldness and passivity. If coldness is accompanied by long-term disconnection or perfunctory response, it usually indicates that the interest level has fallen below the threshold for maintaining the relationship. At this point, excessive proactivity by women may reinforce their partner's avoidance behavior, while appropriate withdrawal can actually trigger a sense of crisis.

In the face of coldness, it is recommended to maintain a moderate frequency of interaction and avoid emotional questioning or excessive flattery. Emotional dependence can be reduced by expanding social circles and observing whether the other party actively rebuilds the connection. After clarifying one's own bottom line, non aggressive communication can be used to express feelings, but one needs to be mentally prepared for the possibility that the relationship may naturally fade away. During this period, one can focus on self-improvement and shift their attention to career development or hobbies. A healthy intimate relationship should be established on the basis of mutual investment.