Blind date men walk side by side and are very close to each other

During blind dates, when men walk side by side in close proximity, it may be an unconscious habitual action or an intention to test the intimacy distance. It is necessary to combine other body language to make a comprehensive judgment. In blind date situations, men actively reducing their physical distance from the opposite sex usually reflects two psychological states. Due to differences in social habits, some people have a vague sense of personal spatial boundaries, especially when they are nervous or focused on conversation, they may unconsciously approach each other. This type of situation is often accompanied by naturally relaxed body language, such as natural arm movements, unintentional trunk tilting, and maintaining a normal social angle of sight. The other type has a clear purpose, by shortening the distance to observe the other person's reaction and testing the acceptance of intimacy. At this time, exploratory limb movements usually occur, such as frequently approaching the other person's arm while walking, slightly tilting the shoulder towards the female partner, and making occasional physical contact multiple times.

In rare cases, it is necessary to be alert to cross-border behavior. If the other party continues to approach after clearly showing an avoidance posture, or engages in behaviors such as excessive physical contact or obstruction of the route, it may involve social boundary cognitive impairment or manipulation intention. This type of behavior is often associated with traits such as excessive self centeredness and lack of empathy, and it is important to observe whether it also shows signs of ignoring others' feelings in other interactive activities. During the blind date process, women can directly request to adjust their walking position or rebuild a safe space through non confrontational methods such as slowing down their pace or changing their walking direction if the distance is not appropriate. Maintaining a moderate physical distance during the first meeting can help establish a comfortable social atmosphere. It is recommended that both parties choose a walking distance of about half a meter apart, which is both convenient for communication and does not cause a sense of oppression. It is possible to observe the other party's reaction to changes in distance, and if the other party adjusts the distance accordingly, it indicates respect for personal boundaries. Choose open public places to meet and avoid the passive sense of closeness caused by narrow and crowded environments. Pay attention to your own comfort level, and if you continue to feel uneasy, you can voluntarily end the date. Blind dates are a two-way selection process, and body language coordination often reflects potential personality matching. However, there is no need to overinterpret a single behavior, and it is recommended to conduct a comprehensive evaluation through multiple contacts.