Who cares about you in seconds from WeChat habits: these 3 points cannot be disguised

Have you ever stared blankly at WeChat dialogue boxes? The prompt that showed 'the other party is typing...' flashed and then went out, only waiting for a perfunctory 'hmm' in the end; Or the message sent out is like a stone sinking into the sea, and the next day I receive a message saying 'I was too busy yesterday to reply'. The hidden social rules of adults are hidden in the details of WeChat, and those acting skills that pretend to care cannot withstand the test of these three details.

1. Response speed, exposure, level of importance

1. Temperature difference between seconds and reincarnation

People who care about you will turn your messages into special reminders, and you should also respond to messages when wiping your hands while taking a shower. And those who always use phrases like "just in a meeting" or "their phone is on silent" to explain delayed replies may not have your priority on the top three pages of their to-do list yet.

2. The way to end a conversation

The person who ends the conversation seriously will confirm "go ahead and get busy" and "chat tomorrow", while perfunctory contestants often use single words or emojis to hastily end the conversation. The more obvious signal is that every time you are at the bottom of the line to send the last message, the other party never feels impolite.

3. Survival time of unread red dots

message shows read but delayed response? Don't believe in the joke of 'idea reply'. In a relationship that is truly valued, no one will make important people wait with their hearts hanging by, unless they feel that you are not worth responding to immediately.

2. Chatting content reflects the degree of intention

1. The ability to extend the topic

A perfunctory chat will only end the topic with "haha" or "not bad", while a heartfelt conversation will ask for details: "What is the signature dish of the restaurant you mentioned?" "Did the project solve smoothly later?" When the other party actively weaves the topic into a web, it is the true proof of participation in your life.

2. Memory retention time

I mentioned my cold last week and today I proactively asked, "Are you feeling better; I accidentally said that I dislike coriander, so remember to make a note next time you eat. These details that do not require deliberate recording are the exclusive characteristics of "important figures" automatically marked by the brain Right.

3. Synchronization frequency of emotions

When you are happy, I will accompany you to send sand sculpture emoticons, and when you are down, you don't have to "don't think too much" to send you away. People who can handle emotional fluctuations have long turned WeChat dialogue boxes into portable tree holes.

3. Proactive Index Measurement of Relationship Temperature

1. Proportion of Dialogue Initiation

Looking through six months of chat records, if you always actively find topics, but the other party has never shared any life fragments, this relationship may be like a unilaterally charged Bluetooth earphone - the battery life will eventually run out.

2. Linkage between online and offline

Saying "next meal appointment" on WeChat, but never waiting for a specific date; I like you on my social media, but in real life, I bow my head and play with my phone. The passion of the virtual world and the indifference of real life cannot deceive people.

3. Presence of Special Days

Birthday wishes sent at midnight or in bulk after system reminders? When encountering difficulties, should you proactively say 'Do you need help' or wait for you to speak before reluctantly agreeing? These moments that require additional effort are the most valuable tests of a relationship. WeChat is no longer a simple communication tool, and those unspoken concerns and perfunctory responses are hidden in the folds of chat records. Instead of worrying about whether he cares or not, it's better to focus your energy on people who will listen carefully to you. After all, true importance does not require reasoning, just like how you will always reply to that special person in the first place.