What does it mean to turn war into silk

The term 'gange' in the context of 'transforming gange into jade and silk' originally referred to ancient weapons, with 'gange' being a shield and 'ge' being a long handled horizontal blade weapon. Later, it was extended to refer to war and conflict; Jade and silk refer to jade and silk fabrics, symbolizing peace and friendship. This idiom metaphorically refers to transforming hostile relationships into friendly ones.

As an ancient tool of war, the material and shape of the spear have evolved with history. During the Shang and Zhou dynasties, bronze was commonly used for casting, and after the Han dynasty, iron swords gradually became popular. Gan is mainly used for defense and can withstand attacks from arrows or swords; Ge is an offensive weapon that destroys enemy formations through pecking movements. The combination of two weapons reflects the ancient military concept of integrating offense and defense, which later became synonymous with war. Jade and silk hold a special place in ancient etiquette. Jade symbolizes power and virtue, often used in major occasions such as sacrificial ceremonies and oaths; Silk fabrics, as valuable commodities, are often used as tribute or diplomatic gifts to feudal lords. The combination of the two represents sincerity and harmony, forming a sharp contrast with the violent nature of war. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, feudal states often reached ceasefire agreements by exchanging jade and silk, and this diplomatic wisdom became the origin of idioms.

Modern society applies this concept to mediating interpersonal conflicts. When there is a conflict between the two parties, proactive communication, empathy, and other methods can be used to replace confrontation. Nonviolent communication in psychology emphasizes observing facts rather than judging the other person, expressing needs rather than blaming mistakes, and this communication method can effectively reduce defensive psychology. In organizational management, establishing a mechanism for sharing benefits is more effective in promoting long-term cooperation than coercive measures. Understanding the symbolic meanings of war and jade can help cultivate creative thinking in resolving conflicts. Mastering conflict transformation skills requires practice and reflection. Daily recording of scenes that trigger emotional fluctuations, analyzing one's own reaction patterns; When learning listening skills, pay attention to the emotional needs in the other person's language; Dialogue can be paused before major conflicts, and written communication can be used after emotions have calmed down. These methods are like the art of melting swords into jade, requiring a combination of patience and wisdom. If you have been troubled by interpersonal relationships for a long time, it is recommended to seek professional psychological counseling help.