What are the behaviors of children that indicate that parents have raised them too simply?

When a 5-year-old girl insists that 'bad people only exist in fairy tales', and an 8-year-old boy is teased by his classmates and laughs, saying' they are playing with me ', these signals may suggest that pure education is becoming a hidden danger of overprotection. Simplicity is the most precious quality of childhood, but if it exceeds the cognitive level expected of age, it can become a stumbling block on the path of growth.

1. Abnormal behavior in social interactions

1. Unable to recognize malicious behavior

Despite being robbed of toys, actively handing over snacks and mistaking obvious bullying behavior for a game. This excessive friendliness may stem from a lack of basic social risk education.

2. Unconditional trust in strangers

will follow strangers who claim to be "mom colleagues" and leave without defense against requests from others. According to data from the Foreign Children's Safety Association, the probability of such children being harmed is 2.3 times that of ordinary children.

3. Not knowing how to protect personal privacy Private

publicly disclose information such as home address and parents' income, using sharing secrets as a way to make friends. This transparent state of existence is particularly dangerous in the digital age.

2. Cognitive lag characteristics

1. Black and white thinking patterns

firmly believe that "everyone is a good person" and cannot understand complex human nature. This absolute cognition will hinder the development of empathy ability.

2. Over reliance on others' judgment

When faced with a choice, say "Mom decides", even choosing the ice cream flavor depends on parents' eyes. The lack of decision-making ability is more alarming than the lack of knowledge.

3. Lack of basic concept of danger

believes that "being hit by a car won't hurt", and this unrealistic perception may lead to accidental injuries.

III. Typical Problems of Emotional Management

1. Inability to Handle Negative Emotions

When encountering setbacks, one will completely collapse and view failure in normal competition as the end of the world. The ability to regulate emotions is significantly lower than that of peers.

2. Excessive empathy to self harm

Crying all night because the villain in the story is punished, this borderless empathy will consume psychological energy.

3. Abnormally slow emotional recovery

After being nicknamed by a classmate, she remained depressed for two weeks, indicating a lack of psychological resilience building.

4. Danger signals that require immediate intervention

1. Blurred awareness of physical boundaries

Allow anyone to touch Touching privately Confidential area, no warning for improper contact Feel the reaction.

2. Serious misplacement of material concepts

believes that "money grows from mobile phones" and has no concept of exchanging labor for compensation.

3. Virtual reality is indistinguishable.

firmly believes in the existence of animated characters, and this cognitive confusion may continue into school age.

A child's innocence should be like a tender sprout in early spring, requiring moderate wind and rain to grow strong. Wise parents understand that quietly opening a few windows of reality in a pure world can not only preserve the beautiful childlike filter, but also help their children build the necessary survival armor. Try to incorporate a thinking game of 'what would a bad person do' into daily conversations, and cultivate danger through role-playing Machine consciousness, allowing children's innocence to grow the roots of wisdom.