Not making noise or disturbance can stimulate men's sense of guilt

Not making noise may indeed trigger men's sense of guilt, but the effectiveness of this approach varies from person to person. The attitude of silence and restraint may make some men reflect on their own behavior, while it may cause communication barriers for others. The key lies in the healthy foundation of the relationship between both parties and the personality traits of the other party. When women choose to deal with conflicts with a calm attitude, some men may experience self reflection due to their partner's restraint. This sense of guilt usually stems from the perception of imbalanced relationships, such as realizing that one has failed to fulfill commitments or ignored the other person's needs. At this point, men may take the initiative to make up for their mistakes, manifested as more proactive communication or behavioral changes. This approach is suitable for relationships with a solid emotional foundation, where the other party has strong empathy and a sense of responsibility. However, excessive reliance on silence strategies may backfire. For men with avoidant personality or a lack of self reflection, not expressing their needs can actually blur the focus of the problem. Long term suppression of emotions may accumulate resentment and lead to strained relationships. In some cases, the other party may misunderstand silence as indifference or acquiescence, and instead reinforce inappropriate behavior. This approach requires the use of nonviolent communication skills to clearly express the bottom line at appropriate points. A healthy relationship needs to be built on the basis of sincere communication. When occasionally using the silence strategy, it is recommended to coordinate with a calm expression of needs and explain the expectations behind the restrained behavior. At the same time, observe the other party's reaction and determine whether they have basic empathy skills. If emotions are suppressed unilaterally for a long time or the other party has no intention of changing, the relationship pattern needs to be reassessed. True guilt induction leads to positive change, rather than becoming a means of emotional manipulation.