Women sending these types of messages are actually saying 'I miss you'!

At the moment when the phone screen lights up, behind that seemingly ordinary message, there may be an uncontrollable heart. Modern people's longing is no longer limited to the three words "I miss you". Those indirect and probing greetings, sudden sharing, and even hesitant emoticons have become the Morse code of longing.

1. Seemingly casual daily sharing

1. Suddenly sent photos of small flowers on the roadside

Without composition skills or filter decoration, they are just random roadside wildflowers. The implicit message behind this sudden image sharing is often 'I hope you are also by my side when I see the scenery at this moment'.

2. Forwarding funny videos or jokes

Although it is possible to post them on social media, they are intentionally private chats with you. On the surface, it's about sharing happiness, but in reality, it's about creating common topics and extending the conversation time. There is an unspoken longing hidden in those haha expressions.

3. Endless food photos

Without mentioning where they were eaten or evaluating the taste, simply post a food photo. This may be the most subtle invitation hint, hoping that you can say 'take me there next time'.

2. Abnormal timing greetings

1. "Are you asleep" sent late at night

Can resist not contacting during the day, but longing surges in when it's quiet at night. Behind this simple greeting may be an uncontrollable desire to confide while tossing and turning.

2. Weather forecast for weekday mornings

Suddenly reminding you to cool down, wear clothes, and bring an umbrella to prevent rain may seem like ordinary concern, but in reality, it is expressing in the most practical way, "You have always been in my mind".

3. Exploring the itinerary before holidays

Ask a week in advance, "What are the plans for the holiday?" On the surface, it's just casual chat, but in reality, it's hoping to be included in your to-do list. This cautious probing is often more precious than a straightforward invitation.

3. Topics with Memory Filters

1. Suddenly mentioning shared experiences

"What was the name of that restaurant last time?" "Do you remember the movie we watched?" These seemingly forgetful questions are all excuses to revisit memories. By tracing back on shared experiences, emotions flow again.

2. Sharing old songs or photos

When a melody or a photo carries a shared memory, its reproduction becomes the materialization of longing. There is no need to explain the mood when listening to music, familiar lyrics will naturally convey unfinished words.

3. Inquire about the details of your recent situation

"Is the coffee shop you often go to still open?" "How's the progress of the project we talked about last time?" Remember that these life details themselves are proof of concern, and asking for updates is a continuation of longing. In those typed and deleted words, there is the strongest longing hidden.

2. Replace text with emojis

When language appears too straightforward, emojis become the perfect emotional buffer. Especially those coquettish, cute or affectionate expressions are the embodiment of shy longing.

3. Contact under the pretext of seeking help

"What should I do if my phone doesn't charge?" "How to use this software?" Some questions can be easily found on Baidu, but they still insist on asking you. Creating reasons for contact is more important than solving the problem itself.

Modern people's longing is like an encrypted conversation, requiring careful decoding of seemingly ordinary daily fragments. If you receive such information, why not take the initiative and give a straightforward response to the person who is circling around saying they miss you.