Women must see: These two types of men will make your life full of hardships

When I was brushing my mobile phone late at night, I suddenly got my girlfriend's roast: "Why are some men like walking negative energy towers?" The accompanying picture is a tea table full of takeout boxes and a messy sofa. This scene is so immersive that it reminds people of those types of partners who always say "I'll take care of you" but actually make their blood pressure soar.

1. Emotional Roller Coaster Companion

1. Unstoppable Emotional Switch

In the morning, she sweet talks that you are a little princess, but in the afternoon, she can lose the game and throw the keyboard. This kind of partner's emotions are like a circuit without a voltage regulator installed, which may spark at any time due to trivial matters. What's even more frightening is that they will "gift" negative emotions to those around them like a family heirloom, causing the air in the entire room to freeze.

2. Always the Right Debate Champion

From how much salt to put in dinner to which kindergarten a child attends, everything can trigger his lengthy argument. The most amazing thing is that even though one is at a loss, they can still use magical phrases such as "you don't understand" and "I'm doing this for your own good" to turn the tide of the battle. Living with such people is like participating in an endless debate competition, except that the referee is always him.

2. Life Ability Degenerative Companion

1. Household Insulation

The washing machine button is more complex than the spacecraft control lever, and the mop must be twisted to a specific humidity by someone else to use. It's not that I can't do it, it's that I'm too selective and disabled. When you are bedridden due to illness, he can make mushrooms grow in the kitchen; You are on a three-day business trip, and dirty socks can create abstract paintings on the floor.

2. Financial Black Hole constitution

At the beginning of the month, he vowed to save money to buy a house, but in the middle of the month, he discovered that new sneakers must be collected. The salary card is always in the "about to submit" status, while the Huabei bill is shared on time. The most magical thing is that they really feel like they are managing their finances, after all, the theory that "limited edition sneakers will appreciate in value" can justify itself for twenty years. Identifying these features is not to create anxiety, but to help you see why certain patterns of interaction can be exhausting. A healthy relationship should be like a dance between two people, with ups and downs to jump out of a graceful arc. If you always feel like you're carrying the other person forward, perhaps you should re-examine whether this dance partner relationship is balanced.