Have you ever encountered a situation where two people are sitting face to face, but feel like they are separated by an entire galaxy? She understood every word she said, but when connected, it sounded like an encrypted telegram. In fact, language is the decoder of the soul. When women start talking to you in these ways, they may even be saying "goodbye" with punctuation marks.

1. The word terminator
used to receive short essay style responses when sharing funny stories, but now even "haha" has been reduced to "ha". When "good", "okay", and "oh" become high-frequency words, it's like a chat record being muted.
2. Delay signal that cannot be read back
The message shows that it has been read for three hours, and the response is slower than that of food delivery. It's not the phone falling off the toilet, it's the desire to share quietly shifting positions.
2. The topic can never get around daily necessities
1. The conversation turns into a work report
There are no other topics besides "property fee paid" and "courier picked up". The previous discussion on starry sky philosophy is now too lazy to even talk about the weather.
2. Refuse deep communication
Every time I try to have a heart to heart conversation, I am always blocked by "tired" and "another day". The emotional account not only had no deposits, but even the ATM machine was moved away.
3. The language thermometer displays below zero
1. Cancel all nicknames
The transition from "baby" to full name direct address is better than canceling the phone kiss Confidential payment is still thorough. When the modal particles collectively disappear, even exclamation marks become redundant.
2. synchronized withdrawal of body language
When saying "it's okay", consciously hug your arms and deliberately maintain a distance when talking about daily life. The mouth can lie, but the microexpressions are sending SOS signals.
4. Suddenly becoming a debate contestant
1. Even small things can ignite a powder keg
Forgetting to buy soy sauce can escalate to personality criticism, and the wrong way of squeezing toothpaste can become a clash of values. When communication becomes a bomb disposal site, every punctuation mark is timed to explode Bullet.
2. Negative communication becomes the norm
The sentence structure starting with "you always" and "you always" appears frequently, as if carrying a negative review stamp with you. This is not giving advice, but writing a resignation letter in an emotional relationship.
5. Future planning automatically blocks you
1. First person substitution for "us"
When discussing next year's plans, "I plan" completely replaces "us together". When the common future tense becomes a singular term, the relationship is already counting down.
2. Avoid discussing long-term commitment topics
As soon as parents are mentioned, change the topic and discuss the wedding date like setting a system delay update. It's not that you're not ready yet, it's that you're not on the preparation list. Language is a barometer of relationships, but don't rush to condemn emotions to death. Some communication modes are temporary sleep during the fatigue period, while others are a blue screen prompt for complete shutdown. It is important to keep the conversation channel open and give each other a chance to calibrate their sincerity. After all, in the adult world, silence is more decisive than argument.
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