Who was there when I collapsed late at night? These three moments are when women are most thirsty I hope you're by my side

The phone screen lights up at 3am, and the ellipsis following the phrase "Have you slept?" in the dialogue box hides a lot of hesitant emotions. The breakdown of adults often occurs when the whole world is asleep, and some moments of companionship can be like a warm hand treasure suddenly handed over on a winter night, warming people's fingertips all the way to their hearts.

1. Three days before menstruation

1. Hormonal roller coaster

When estrogen and progesterone plummet sharply, the body seems to be drained of all happiness factors. The act of handing over the hot water bottle at this moment is more shocking than any romantic words.

2. The pain switch is triggered

The lumbar and sacral regions seem to be attacked by an electric drill, and the feeling of bloating in the lower abdomen makes it difficult to sit and stand. The figure silently boiling brown sugar and ginger tea can instantly shatter all the show of strength.

3. Emotions are flammable and explosive Bang

Watching variety shows, laughing and suddenly shedding tears, wanting to complain to the whole world about being five minutes late for takeout. At this moment, hugging should be like exploding Soft and elastic, with a hint of 'It's not your fault'.

2. On the day of workplace setbacks

1. The plan was completely rejected

The forced smile in the conference room may crumble at the moment of seeing you. What is needed at this point is empathetic listening, not the God's perspective of 'I've said it before'.

2. Encountering gender bias

The harsh statement of "girls should still find a stable job" requires you to use "you deserve better" to neutralize it. Affirming her professional ability is more important than comfort.

3. Working overtime until the last subway

The last light that goes out in the office building late at night needs someone to pick it up to avoid feeling desolate. The shoulder on the back seat of a taxi is a more tangible sense of security than a promotion or salary increase.

III. moments of parenting breakdown

1. When a child's high fever persists [SEP], even the most calm mother's fingers tremble when the thermometer reading exceeds 39 ℃. At 3am in the hospital corridor, people taking turns holding their children and queuing up is the ultimate romance.

2. Tutoring Homework Scene

Despite teaching math problems ten times, I still got them wrong. After unconsciously raising my voice by an octave, I suddenly felt guilty. At this time, someone needs to take the exercise book and say, "You go and apply a facial mask, I will".

3. When questioned by her elders about her parenting style [SEP], she stood behind her and said, "We have our own way," which is more powerful than fighting against the whole world.

What is truly precious is never the flowers and lipstick, but the tissue that was handed over in a timely manner when tears were about to overflow, and the phrase "I'm here" that was firmly caught the second before her collapse. Winter nights are so long, may every emotion that needs to be seen find a place to rest.