When a man shows these signals, it means he doesn't have you in his heart anymore

At the moment when the phone screen dimmed, he evaded your dinner invitation for the eighth time by saying 'working overtime'. In WeChat dialogue boxes, those emojis with warmth are gradually being replaced by "um" and "oh", and even arguing has become a luxury. The signs of emotional cooling are like snowflakes outside the window, seemingly casual, but accumulating a thick layer in the heart.

1. There is a significant change in emotional response

1. Language temperature drops sharply

From actively sharing daily anecdotes to mechanically replying to messages, exclamation marks disappear during conversations, and emoji inventory is cleared. When you exchange "Oh" for "I met a super cute stray cat today", even the input box will feel aggrieved for you.

2. Avoid deep communication

When discussing future plans, suddenly change the topic and always say "you overthink" when faced with emotional needs. Starting from important anniversaries, using work as a shield, even arguments have turned into one-sided silent confrontations.

2. Fundamental change in behavior patterns

1. Sharp reduction in time spent together

Weekend dates have changed from a weekly must see once a month, and video call duration has changed from hours to minutes. When you find out that he would rather watch a three hour short video than reply to a half-hour message, time allocation already explains everything.

2. Increase body distance

When walking side by side, the arms no longer naturally touch each other, and hugging becomes like completing homework. Those subconscious movements of tidying up your bangs, at some point, turned into a fixed posture of looking down at your phone.

3. Abnormal Signs in Social Dynamics

1. Clear Social Account Dynamics

Moments have changed from sharing group photos to only being visible for three days, and a selfie of a stranger girl suddenly appears in Weibo like records. When you need to inquire about his recent situation through mutual friends, a rift has already appeared in the relationship.

2. Avoid the common social circle

Friends always find excuses to be absent from gatherings, and when they meet your acquaintances, their expressions become stiff. The eye contact between mutual friends who hesitate to speak often speaks louder than the defense of the parties involved.

4. Future planning excludes you

1. Avoid long-term commitments

When discussing next year's travel plans, he says "we'll talk about it later" and avoids being busy with work when it comes to meeting parents. When your position is never in his future blueprint, the current relationship is just a countdown.

2. Economic boundaries suddenly become clear

From "my money is yours" to a strict AA system, even birthday gifts have started to be perfunctory. The contraction of material input is often the most direct manifestation of emotional detachment.

Emotions are never a black-and-white question, but persistent cooling signals are worth being wary of. Instead of depleting oneself in a gradually distancing relationship, it's better to turn one's energy towards self-improvement. True love should be like the warm winter sun, you can feel the warmth without deliberately searching. When unilateral maintenance becomes the norm, perhaps we should give ourselves the courage to start anew.