WeChat not responding, phone not answering? 2 heart wrenching reasons to tell you the answer

The phone screen dimmed and then lit up, and the last message in the dialogue box still lay alone, as if the familiar avatar had been muted. Although we were chatting passionately two hours ago, in the blink of an eye, it has become a state of "evaporation from the human world". This experience is even more satisfying than drinking milk tea mixed with water in winter. In fact, the other party may be holding their phone to watch short videos, but your message has been selectively blocked.

1. The depletion of social energy leads to "unreadable"

1. The social battery capacity of contemporary people is in urgent need

The continuous message prompts the alarm clock that the audio and video will never turn off, and many people's social battery has already been depleted after work. The brain's ability to process information is limited, and when it exceeds its load, it will automatically turn on message free mode, which is similar to the functional limitations of a phone after turning on low battery mode.

2. The cognitive burden brought by text communication

Compared to face-to-face communication, text transmission requires more mental effort to decipher tone and subtext. A simple emoji may take three minutes to ponder, and a lengthy response requires organizing language, which is an invisible labor that makes people instinctively want to escape.

2. "Communication Silence" Triggered by psychological Defense Mechanisms

1. Ostrich Strategy in Stress Situations

When faced with difficult problems or complex emotions, some people may choose temporary disconnection to gain breathing space. Just as pretending to die when encountering wild beasts is an instinct, this avoidance behavior is actually a manifestation of psychological self-protection mechanisms.

2. Kinship The density is inversely proportional to the response speed

Secret relationships are more prone to delayed responses because subconsciously, one is confident that the other party will tolerate them. This phenomenon is similar to the contrast between being able to be messy at home but having to dress up carefully when going out, which is essentially an alternative proof of relationship security.

Next time you encounter a situation where you can't read it back, you can send a cute emoji buffer to the other person first, or switch to a voice call directly. Remember that true concern is never the speed of instant response, but the warmth when contacting again. If you find yourself frequently playing the role of a "missing person", perhaps you should consider making a subtraction to your life and leaving exclusive offline time.