WeChat not responding but meeting warmly? 3 details to see through who really misses you

Have you ever encountered a situation where someone who is chatting passionately on WeChat seems like a different person when they meet; However, friends who usually reply slowly to messages are more likely to meet in person contact? The social mask behind the phone screen is getting thicker and thicker, and in fact, three small details can help you screen out the true person.

1. Eye contact is more honest than dialogue

1. Natural reaction of pupils

When facing each other, the other person's pupils slightly dilate and remain for more than 3 seconds, indicating that the brain is secreting pleasure hormones. This physiological reaction is difficult to disguise and is more convincing than posting ten heart-shaped expressions on WeChat.

2. Pattern of gaze landing

When listening attentively, one will naturally gaze at the other person's facial and eye triangle area, frequently look down at their phone or around people, and even respond to WeChat messages in seconds, which may just be habitual social perfunctory.

3. Changes in Blink Frequency

When a person is truly engaged in communication, the number of blinks per minute will decrease from the usual 15-20 times to 6-8 times. If the other person keeps staring at you during video calls, they may be distracted by other things.

2. Body language is more authentic than emojis

1. Toe pointing

The human body unconsciously points its toes towards the person of interest. Pay attention during dinner, the person who responds slowly on WeChat but always sits facing you every time we meet is likely to have reserved a spot for you in their heart.

2. Arm openness

People who hold their phones back on the table and stretch their arms naturally are usually more willing to open up than those who post "I miss you" on WeChat but hold their arms throughout. Thick clothing in winter can weaken this signal, depending on whether the wrist is facing the speaker.

3. Micro synchronization phenomenon

is closely related Secret people will unconsciously imitate the other person's movements within 5 minutes, such as simultaneously supporting their cheeks or crossing their legs. This kind of tacit understanding can also be observed in WeChat video calls.

3. Time investment is more important than chat frequency

1. Reserve exclusive time slots [SEP]. People who can adjust your original schedule for you are more reliable than those who check in on WeChat every day but are always "busy". Pay attention to friends who are still willing to attend appointments on snowy days, as social sincerity in low temperatures holds even greater value.

2. Dialogue response quality

When meeting with someone who can naturally connect with the previous chat content, it indicates that they are indeed sincere in online communication. On the contrary, people who always ask 'Have we talked about this before?' may not even open the chat window.

3. Delay during Farewell

After a party, taking the initiative to walk with you for a longer distance or standing still watching the person you leave is often more emotional than being the first person to rush out of the private room after scrolling through WeChat saying "I can't bear to part with you". Next time you're struggling with who cares more about you, why not temporarily put down your phone. True emotional connection requires temperature, scent, and authentic chemical reactions, which cannot be replaced by any amount of heart emojis. Try to use winter meal dates as a tool for testing interpersonal relationships, as the true answer to life lies in the steaming hot soup.