These springs Details reveal the truth of marriage: couples who have lived for a long time understand

Spring At the reunion dinner table, there are always some intriguing details hidden - some people are busy adding their favorite dishes to their partner's bowl, while others only focus on scrolling through their phones; Some people share household chores tacitly, while others push all the pressure from their elders onto their significant other. These seemingly trivial moments, like a mirror, reflect the most authentic texture of marriage.

1. Temperature gauge on the dining table

1. Language behind picking up food

Which plate can chopsticks be extended towards to reveal affection Confidentiality level. Long term harmonious couples often remember each other's favorite warm dishes for winter, and naturally stir the stewed lamb into each other's bowls. In families with tense relationships, the phrase 'Chu River Han Boundary' often appears at the dining table, with each person guarding the plate in front of them.

2. The hidden surge in the glass

The persuasion words conceal a subtle power game. A partner who truly understands each other will help each other block alcohol: 'If he has a bad stomach, I'll do it for him', while some couples will use the phrase 'not drinking is not giving face' to pressure each other in public. This kind of spring The embarrassment of the limited edition often continues into daily life.

2. Cooperation War When Visiting Relatives and Friends

1. The tacit understanding value in the red envelope

Whether to negotiate the amount when preparing the red envelope can show the transparency of economic management. Some couples may agree on the amount in advance to avoid embarrassment, while others may publicly execute with the phrase 'you pay 500, I pay 200', exposing their lack of communication in daily life.

2. The firewall that generates topics

Faced with the soul questioning of the seven uncles and eight aunts, high-level partners will take the initiative to cover for each other: "We plan to wait until we change to a bigger house", while tense relationships often play a big role in throwing the blame: "It's all because he/she doesn't want to", let Chun The festival has become a stress test site for marriage.

3. The Demonic Mirror for Household Division

1. The Double Dance in the Kitchen

Preparing for the New Year's Eve Dinner is the most authentic marriage documentary. A well coordinated couple is like a skilled dance partner, one cutting and matching with one spoon, naturally connecting; However, in some households, there is always only one person fighting in the kitchen, while the other "wins" lying on the sofa, and this imbalance often persists throughout the year.

2. Competition of New Year's Road Map

The century old problem of who to go to first for New Year's greetings, couples who handle it well will formulate a "fair route" in advance, and some even innovate the solution of "your home in the morning and my home in the afternoon". And every spring Couples who argue about this during festivals often have unequal decision-making power in their daily lives.

4. Micro expressions during New Year's Eve

1. Priority of grabbing red envelopes

When the rain of red envelopes in the family group hits, should we each frantically poke the screen, or help our partners who are not with their phones grab a share? This instinct can tell where to place the other person.

2. The ability of roast at the Spring Festival Gala

couples who can roast about the cross talk effect of the Spring Festival Gala show, usually have a high daily communication density. And a combination of desperately searching for topics and perfunctory "hmm" may not even be willing to pretend to be in sync. Marriage is like a mechanical watch that needs regular calibration, spring The moments of high-density interaction like this are precisely the opportunity to readjust the gear meshing degree. Those that can go through dozens of springs A couple who celebrate is just turning 'seeing each other' into muscle memory. During this year's reunion dinner, it's worth paying more attention to the details that hide love, as they are more genuine than any New Year's wishes.