These 5 behaviors indicate that he doesn't like you that much. Don't deceive yourself anymore

Have you ever had such an experience? Although the other party's response to messages is getting slower and slower, and they always say 'we'll talk about it next time' on dates, they are still making excuses for him: 'He's been too busy lately', 'Maybe that's just his personality'. Don't rush to deny it, body language and everyday details are often more honest than sweet words. Today, let's talk about the easily overlooked signals of "not liking enough" to help you keep your eyes open.

1. Proactive contact frequency drops sharply

1. Return from seconds to cycle

In the early days of the hot network, messages returned in seconds, but now it often takes half a day to see anyone. Note that what is being said here is not occasional busyness, but sustained coldness in response. The person who truly cares about you, no matter how busy they are, will still find time to say 'in meetings, talk later'.

2. It's always you who initiates the topic.

When you flip up three pages of your chat history, you find that there are far more green dialog boxes (you posted) than white ones. relationships require mutual efforts, and one-sided passion cannot sustain the story of two people.

2. Avoid future related topics

1. Pretend to be deaf and mute about the plan

When asked if they would like to attend a music festival next month, the other party either changes the topic or says perfunctorily, "We'll see later. Avoiding common future planning often means that in his mind, you do not have long-term possibilities.

2. Zero intersection in social circle

Love for more than three months but never see his friends, and there is no trace of you on social media accounts. This is not low-key, but more like leaving a way out for the relationship.

III. Body Language Exposes True Thoughts

1. Pro Close contact has significantly decreased [SEP]. In the past, holding hands and hugging shoulders was natural, but now even walking side by side maintains a distance of half a meter. The body is the most honest 'lie detector', when it comes to oneself The secret move turned into a task-based approach, and the emotional warmth can be imagined.

2. Eye avoidance becomes a habit

When speaking, the gaze wanders and rarely looks directly into your eyes. psychological research has found that liking someone will unconsciously increase eye contact, while liking someone else will instinctively lead to avoidance.

4. Insufficient emotional value supply

1. Empathy ability offline

When you share happy things, he reacts calmly and only says "don't overthink" when encountering difficulties. Emotional connection is like a bank account, only withdrawing without depositing will eventually overdrawn.

2. Refuse deep communication

Whenever discussing topics such as values and emotional needs, avoid them. The relationship that floats on the surface is like a house without a foundation, unable to withstand any wind and rain tests.

Fifth, the degree of effort is seriously unequal

1. Time allocation always prioritizes oneself

His gatherings are never absent, but your birthday always "happens" to be overtime. In the adult world, where time is spent, love is there.

2. Weak willingness to resolve conflicts

In the event of disagreements, either a cold war to the end or a perfunctory apology without change. What truly matters is the willingness to adjust for the relationship, rather than always having to compromise unilaterally. After reading these, do you already have the answer in your mind? Love should not be a detective game, it requires repeatedly searching for evidence of 'he loves me'. A healthy relationship will make you feel secure and at ease, rather than constantly doubting yourself. If multiple signals hit, perhaps it's time to reassess whether this relationship is worth continuing to invest in. Remember, your sincerity is precious, it should be left to those who know how to cherish it.