The unspoken rules of interpersonal communication: Smart women hide these two points, while confused women show off when they see people

Have you noticed that the women around you who live particularly comfortably are often not the ones who talk the most? They are like a cup of warm water, neither scalding the mouth nor cooling the teeth, yet they always provide just the right level of comfort at critical moments. In fact, there are some unwritten understandings in the interaction between people, just like wearing a sweater in winter to avoid static electricity, and some things are smarter to keep than to hang them out.

1. Past love experiences are not medals

1. Love history is not social currency

A girl who flaunts her number of exes as her achievements is like dancing with a double-edged sword. You think you're showing off your charm, but others may have already attached labels in their hearts. A truly confident person does not need to rely on their emotional history to prove their attractiveness.

2. Detail exposure soft The specific reasons for the breakup and details of the relationship are private Secret fragments, once spoken out, cannot be retrieved. It's a small matter to become someone else's topic of conversation after dinner, but it's troublesome to be used as a leverage by someone with ulterior motives. Just like a bare ankle in winter, looking fashionable, it's oneself who gets cold.

3. Current relationships require cling film

The current partner may not cherish you more just because they know you have had many exes, but may even plant the seeds of suspicion. Good relationships are like fresh strawberries, they don't need to be compared in the baskets of exes.

2. Family savings are not a talent show

1. Numbers can change the temperature of interpersonal relationships

The moment you say your deposit balance, you send a psychological test paper to everyone who hears it. Some people may silently remove you from the AA list, while others may suddenly become as passionate as discovering a new continent. Money is like a thermometer in winter, exposing too much can easily catch a cold in relationships.

2. The security line needs to be blurred

The specific amount is like a security door password, the less people know, the safer it is. You can say 'enough', but don't be precise to the decimal point. Nowadays, even mobile payments have to cover the screen and enter passwords, let alone the family's economic trump card.

3. True confidence does not require a cash detector.

Those who frequently wear luxury items on the day actually expose their anxiety about material possessions. Just like people who always emphasize 'who do I know', they are usually not tough enough. The balance on the bank card will not be engraved on the face, but the calm temperament cannot be hidden. Women who live a clear life know how to leave white space, just like the white space in ink paintings is more durable than pigments. Some words swallowed are not grievances, but leave room for the future; Some things are not hypocritical, but respect for each other. Next time you want to confide in someone, why not ask yourself: Will saying this make you feel more at ease, or may it become a burden for tomorrow?