The secret of a high emotional intelligence woman: if you let her know, she will love you even more

Have you noticed that couples who have a particularly good relationship in life often have one thing in common - the wife knows how to "let" the husband in. But this kind of 'compromise' is not compromise, but a wise way of getting along.

1. Why do women with high emotional intelligence know how to "let go"?

1. Letting go is a form of respect.

True letting go is not about showing weakness, but about leaving room for the other person to grow. Just like a gardener doesn't forcefully open flower buds, but patiently waits for the flowers to bloom naturally.

2. Letting go is a kind of trust.

When you let go of small things, the other person will actually feel trusted. This trust will become his driving force for progress.

3. Let smart women know that sometimes taking a step back is not about giving up, but about moving forward better. Just like long jump requires a run-up, emotions also need buffering.

2. How to cleverly "let go" in life

1. Give up the decision-making power

Where to go on weekends? What's for dinner? Leave the decision-making power of these small matters to the other party. You will find that he is increasingly willing to think proactively.

2. Give up opportunities for performance

When encountering problems, don't rush to solve them, give them a chance to showcase their abilities. Men have a hero complex in their bones.

3. Give up the perfect standard

Don't expect him to do everything as you expect. Allowing mistakes, he will actually work harder.

III. What should be paid attention to in the art of "letting go"

1. The bottom line should be clear

Letting go does not mean compromising without principles. Important things must be persevered, and small things can be flexible.

2. Timing should be appropriate.

Taking a step back when he is feeling down can be twice the result with half the effort. But when he becomes complacent, he needs to be reminded appropriately.

3. The way should be natural.

The best way is to leave no trace. Being too deliberate can actually make the other person feel like you are giving away.

Emotions are like dancing tango, there are ups and downs to dance beautiful steps. Learn to take a step back at the right time, and you will find that he not only did not advance, but also cherished you even more. Remember, true high emotional intelligence is not about blindly giving in, but about knowing when and how to give in.