The performance of middle-aged couples reaching the end, stopping losses as early as possible if there are two or more

When I was scrolling through my phone late at night, I suddenly came across a private message: "Can this kind of marriage still be saved if I can't talk to my husband for less than three words a day?" The sender's profile picture was a yellowed wedding photo, in which the two of them were laughing so hard that fine lines squeezed out of the corners of their eyes. The text in the dialogue box now carries a chill, like the wind that leaks through the tightly closed window crevices in winter.

1. The conversation system is permanently silent

1. Language function has deteriorated from sleeping on a microphone with voice during love to secretly wearing headphones to watch TV shows after marriage. One day, I suddenly realized that the last serious conversation was about discussing the payment for my child's tutoring class.

2. Emojis replace communication in WeChat dialogue boxes The new record is a "Happy Birthday" reminder automatically generated by the system, and when flipped up for three months, it is filled with "um", "oh", and food delivery transfer records.

3. Body language warning: The distance between two people sitting on the sofa is more accurate than the gap between strangers during the morning rush hour on the subway. Occasionally, physical contact can quickly bounce off like touching a leaking socket.

2. Emotional account severely overdrawn

1. Memory time difference. He remembers that the new intern at the company loves to drink caramel macchiato, but forgets that you have been allergic to mangoes for ten years. The wedding anniversary has become a non ringing alarm clock in the mobile calendar.

2. Emotional Value Shutdown: You work overtime until early in the morning and come home only to find that he has left a floor full of takeout boxes but bought new skins for the game character. At that moment, I suddenly understood why supermarkets charge for plastic bags - the feeling of not being cherished was like this.

3. Going our separate ways in future planning. He plans to retire early and open a homestay in Yunnan, while you secretly check out the school district housing in the city. Just like two different versions of travel guides, even the destinations are not in the same time zone.

Thirdly, dear The intimate relationship is downgraded to shared

1. The biological clock is permanently misplaced. When you put on the facial mask to sleep, he just lit his first cigarette late at night. The bedroom became a pendulum that alternated day and night, and the two of them passed by each other forever in the time difference of black and white reversal.

2. Household chores become a secret battle. Grapefruits growing fur in the refrigerator become modern art exhibits, and clothes in the washing machine complete the cycle from clean to dirty. Whoever can't resist taking action first will lose this Cold War.

3. Social circle segmentation has been completed, and there are fewer and fewer common friends. Classmates' gatherings have become a requirement for presenting dialogue in advance. In the friend circle like list, each other always ranks last. Marriage is like a two person boat, when two people start paddling in opposite directions, either adjust the course in time or learn to gracefully dock. Some sunk costs should not be paid for in a lifetime, after all, there will always be a new sunrise at the port.