The man who replied to your message on WeChat should delete it as soon as possible

At the moment when the phone screen lights up, you stare at the perfunctory reply with the word 'um', your fingers hanging in mid air, not knowing how to answer the conversation. In contemporary social norms, WeChat chat records have long become emotional thermometers, hiding not just punctuation marks between the lines, but the true attitude of the other person hidden behind the screen.

1. Beware of Long term Recurrent Replies

1. Lazy Mode of Half Day Reply

I posted lunch photos in the morning and only received "looks good" reviews late at night. This kind of delayed gratification chat is like playing a single player game, your enthusiasm has long been exhausted by waiting. People who truly care, even if they are busy, will take the time to send an emoji to keep warm.

2. The missing person who is always taking a shower

keeps lying in the dialogue box. You say "what are you doing" and then the news of the stone sinking into the sea, but three hours later he likes it on his Moments. The adult world does not suddenly disappear, only deliberate avoidance without wanting to reply.

2. Language Coldness and Violence Can Hurt More People

1. Single Character Terminator professional

"Oh", "Okay", and "Good" three piece sets are used alternately, like pouring ice water on a conversation. Even the phone input method knows how to automatically associate subsequent content, but he feels wasteful even typing a few more words.

2. Topic Smasher Response

enthusiastically shares concert videos, receiving a "noisy" review; Roast that work troubles were returned to "just you have more things". This is not straightforward, it is language violence that is fundamentally unwilling to empathize.

3. Dangerous Double Sign Signal

1. When needed, it will disappear during leisure time.

I asked for your help to change the PPT at 2 o'clock in the middle of the night, but when I asked him to watch a movie on the weekend, he said, "My phone is silent and I didn't see it. This precise time difference response only exposes selfishness.

2. Always typing without any further context

The "other party is typing" at the top of the dialog box flashes for five minutes, and finally pops up with a "?". Either you are busy with multiple colleagues at the same time, or you are too lazy to organize your language for perfunctory responses.

4. Timely stop loss in consumptive relationships

1. Severe emotional value deficit

Every time a chat ends, it feels like it has been emptied out, and it takes three episodes of comedy to recover. A good relationship is a power bank, a bad relationship is a consumer, and battery warning should have been taken seriously long ago.

2. Self doubt begins to breed

From "Am I talking too much" to "Maybe I'm really boring", this PUA style self doubt is chronic poisoning. Truly caring will make you love yourself more, rather than doubting yourself. The social unwritten rules of adults are actually very simple: the person who wants to take you home is always on the way, and the person who wants to chat with you is free in the morning and late at night. Those people who make you think twice in front of the dialogue box should have cleared it with just one click in your address book a long time ago. Remember, your emotions are expensive, don't waste them on relationships that are never in the service area.