The expression of a man loving you: not sweet words, but patience in this matter

While scrolling through my phone late at night, I was suddenly bombarded with messages from my best friend: 'He actually thought my foot soaking water was too hot yesterday!' The accompanying picture shows scattered petals and overturned foot soaking buckets. This reminds me of another friend crying last week, her boyfriend always complaining about her grabbing blankets during her menstrual cycle. You see, the truth in love is often hidden in the most inconspicuous folds of daily life.

1. Being able to tolerate small habits in life is true love

1. Tolerating strange sleep habits

The blanket rolled away at three in the middle of the night and the elbow strike of grabbing the pillow at five in the morning are the "violent behaviors" in sleep that best test patience. The people who truly care about you will still gently help you cover up after your 108th kick, instead of protesting with cold violence.

2. Embrace heavy taste dietary preferences

When he eats the cilantro picked out from your bowl without changing his face, or silently hands a tissue to wipe the corners of your mouth covered in garlic paste, this tacit understanding is ten times more precious than a candlelight dinner. Behind the compromise of taste buds lies the tenderness of being willing to step into the other person's world.

2. Companionship during emotional lows is the most precious

1. Be your punching bag

During those days of inexplicable irritability every month, is he willing to be a silent tree hole? A truly mature lover understands that what is needed at this moment is not to reason, but to quietly listen to those illogical complaints and then offer a glass of warm water.

2. Catch your negative emotions

Work late into the night of collapse, and someone can resist being sleepy and listen to your roast about colleagues; During the weight loss plateau, some people may hide snacks but prepare healthy meals. These seemingly ordinary actions are the most emotionally valuable Good footnote.

3. Compromise in details is worth a thousand words

1. Compromise for healthy habits

Soaking your feet in 42 ℃ despite being afraid of scalding, or boiling brown sugar water for you despite hating ginger, these instinctive compromises are the most touching. Just like a couple I know, the husband is allergic to seafood but accompanies his wife to the beach every year, sitting on the beach and watching her feast. In the marriage of a night owl and an early bird, there are always people who need to adjust their biological clock. The person who can turn off the game and wake up early to make breakfast for you is a hundred times stronger than those who only say 'drink more hot water'. This kind of tenderness with a sense of drowsiness is the highest level of love talk.

Next time, don't worry about whether he said "I love you" or not. Check if he remembers to put down the toilet seat, and if he voluntarily shares a room to sleep in but comes to check his temperature in the middle of the night when he has a cold. True love is hidden in those moments that require gritting one's teeth and enduring, like a cashmere sweater worn close to the body in winter, itchy yet warm.