Stay away from this kind of man! No matter how handsome you are, you can't take it. Be careful not to be deceived

At the gathering of girlfriends, someone always complains: "He looks like the hero of an idol drama, but it's a disaster scene to get along with him!" You think you found a treasure, but it turned out to be a pit. High looks are indeed pleasing to the eye, but some traits are a hundred times more lethal than appearance, like glass shards hidden in chocolate, beneath a sweet appearance are all danger signals.

1. Emotional Roller Coaster

1. The unpredictable weather is like the weather app [SEP]. In the morning, it's gentle like water, but in the afternoon, it suddenly turns cold like frost. This emotional fluctuation is even more exciting than the stock market K-line chart. Long term interaction can make people feel mentally tense, and even their breathing depends on the other person's face.

2. Violent tendencies cannot be concealed

Throwing things and pounding walls are all signs of danger, don't believe the excuse of "just too angry". Violence is like a leaking faucet, it starts with just dripping water and may eventually turn into a flood.

2. narcissistic personality bomber

1. The world is full of supporting role

who can't talk without "me". Even if you are sick, you will feel worse. There is no "empathy" in the dictionary of this type of person, only the single loop of "I look best" and "I'm the best".

2. Always play double standard games.

Staying up late is hard work, and working overtime is neglecting your family; He makes friends to expand his network, while your gatherings are chaotic socializing. Being with such people will constantly doubt one's judgment.

3. Parasitic Companion

1. Economically, you are always in a "transitional period" [SEP]. After three years of graduation, you are still "looking for direction" and rely entirely on your support for rent, water, and electricity. Occasionally working is like giving alms, turning around and buying the most The new game console is also called 'invest in yourself'.

2. Negative Life Skills Contestant

doesn't even recognize the washing machine buttons, but the takeaway boxes can pile up like a small mountain. It's not that I can't do it, it's that I feel like 'you should do these things' and treat my partner as a free nanny.

4. The Trap of Master Manipulation

1. Slowly Cut off your wings

First question your outfit, then interfere with making friends, and finally even get involved in work. By the time you discover it, your social circle has shrunk to just him.

2. Always playing the game of guilt

"If it weren't for your early promotion" "I worked so hard, you wouldn't be satisfied". Describing normal needs as unreasonable and making you constantly compromise and give in.

A good relationship should be like a warm winter sun, warm but not burning. If getting along is more tiring than going to work, and after the sweet period, only exhaustion remains, perhaps it is time to reassess this relationship. Remember, choosing a partner is not about choosing decorative paintings. Just looking good is not enough, it has to withstand the scrutiny of time.