Since you like it, you have to be brave to pursue it

It is feasible to bravely express one's feelings when liking someone, but it is necessary to judge the other person's feelings and relationship foundation based on the actual situation. The premise of active pursuit is that both parties have a certain emotional connection or interactive foundation. If the other party has already released clear signals of goodwill, such as frequent proactive contact, sharing of life details, or not rejecting physical contact, the success rate of expressing feelings directly is higher at this time. If two people have just met or each other's attitude is ambiguous, it is more suitable to establish trust through common interests, observe each other's response, and then decide whether to proceed with the relationship. Be more cautious in the workplace or in relationships with power differences to avoid putting pressure on the other party.

Unilateral strong pursuit may lead to resentment and even harassment risks. When the other party repeatedly avoids invitations, responds coldly, or explicitly refuses, continuing to entangle will disrupt the balance of the original relationship. Some introverted individuals may misunderstand intense pursuit as a desire for control, which can accelerate the deterioration of relationships. Cultural differences also need to be considered, as some groups have a lower acceptance of straightforward expression. Emotional expression is more important than the behavior itself. A sincere attitude, moderate pace, and respect for the other person's boundaries are key, and nonverbal signals can be used to test the other person's acceptance, such as observing whether the other person actively approaches after a brief physical contact. Regardless of the outcome, maintaining a sense of self-worth and an equal mindset can avoid excessive internal friction, and healthy relationships require a two-way approach.

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