Shut up is the highest level of wisdom for women. Have you achieved these situations

Xiao Zhang, the most noisy person in the office, suddenly became quiet like a chicken. Li, the gossip queen in the pantry, did not spread any news of the marriage dispute in the neighboring department for the first time. Even Xiao Wang, who is a chatterbox in his social circle, only posted landscape photos for three consecutive days. Behind these abnormal phenomena, there is a top-level survival wisdom that contemporary women are awakening to.

1. Emergency braking before emotional volcano eruption

1. When the anger level reaches the critical point [SEP], the nail sinks into the palm of the hand, and the tip of the tongue is already pressed against the upper jaw, ready to emit hurtful words. At this moment, I suddenly remembered that my best friend lost a big client last week because she spoke recklessly. The movement of rolling her throat three times to swallow the words back is more effective in exercising her core muscles than any yoga pose.

2. When encountering a mental decline blow [SEP], if you hear such violent comments as "girls are not good at science", instead of starting the debate mode on the spot, it is better to stare at the other person for three seconds with the same eyes as looking at rare animals. The sense of oppression brought by this silence often makes the other person automatically start to doubt life.

3. When receiving Versailles literature [SEP], when a colleague shows off that the newly bought Herm è s was begged to accept by her husband kneeling down, maintaining a smile is more indicative of one's spiritual state than saying "Has your husband's credit card been paid off. Remember, true luxury is emotional stability.

2. Silent Mode in information Storm

1. Mastering the Dominance of Gossip

When knowing the salary details of the entire company, the ability to shut up directly determines the lifespan of the workplace. Turning secrets into archaeological discoveries brought into graves is much wiser than turning them into unearthed cultural relics in WeChat groups.

2. When faced with rumors about "microwave radiation causing cancer" forwarded in the family group, silently setting up a message to avoid disturbance is more protective of cardiovascular health than promoting knowledge one by one. Some cognitive generation gaps require time rather than words to fill.

3. In the face of the ultimate interrogation of "why aren't you married yet" during secret espionage,

has mastered the skill of using one ear in and one ear out. After all, there is no need to submit a feasibility report to the neighborhood committee for your uterus usage plan.

3. Truce Agreement in relationship Game

1. When a partner forgets their anniversary [SEP], instead of launching Cold War nuclear weapons, it is better to try using silence to make them experience the panic of losing customer service. The real punishment is to make him realize his mistake on his own, not to listen to your repeating machine style reminders.

2. When a girlfriend complained about her boyfriend

for the 108th time, she said "this time we must break up". It was more intelligent to hand out a tissue than to give advice. Adult emotions do not require a judge, only an unplugged emotional trash can.

3. On the brink of parenting breakdown

The moment a bear child knocks over the fifth bottle of formula, the silent cost of taking a deep breath for ten seconds is much lower than blurting out words of regret for ten years. Be a mother The highest level is to transform screaming into silent vibration mode. In this era of information overload, women's silence is no longer synonymous with cowardice, but has evolved into a precise emotional management tool. Just like the rarely used bright red lipstick in a makeup bag, silence at critical moments is more powerful than countless words. Starting tomorrow, try to filter out the 100 sentences you have to say every day into 30 sentences, and you will find that ears are more worth investing in than mouths.