Only foolish women believe in true love! Three stages of psychological changes in cheating men revealed

When the fairy tale of 'true love first' is shattered by reality, the psychological games hidden behind sweet vows come to light. Some emotional traps The road is like a carefully designed maze, you think you have found the exit, but in fact, you have just entered the next cycle. Today we will use a microscope to examine the subtle psychological changes in certain relationships.

1. Hidden signals during the trial period

1. Traces of attention shift

The tilt angle of the phone screen has changed from 45 degrees to 180 degrees, and the power bank that needs to be carried during showering is suddenly no longer needed. These subtle behavioral changes often reveal psychological alienation earlier than words, like gradually dimming lights with small but continuous changes in brightness.

2. Subtle adjustment of emotional investment

The information that was once replied in seconds began to appear blank for two hours, and the commemorative gift changed from a handmade photo album to a convenience store chocolate. When the level of engagement decreases, people may unconsciously use "busy work" to fill all the gaps, but time allocation never lies.

II. Contradictory expressions during the swing period

1. The tug of war between guilt and excitement

Suddenly, attentiveness and inexplicable irritability alternate, like a car stepping on the accelerator and brake at the same time. At this stage, excessive compensatory behavior often occurs, such as giving expensive gifts for no reason, essentially seeking psychological balance for one's own wavering.

2. Dual Life Energy Allocation

Starting to focus on fitness and dressing, but the newly purchased shirt will never appear in front of you. Time management has suddenly become more precise, and the number of weekend overtime hours has increased exponentially, all of which are shifting space for parallel relationships.

3. Behavioral patterns during the decision-making period

1. Chain reaction of emotional withdrawal

When arguing, the silence time is exponentially prolonged without explanation. When the defense mechanism is fully activated, even perfunctory actions appear luxurious, which is an external manifestation of the psychological distance expanding to a certain extent.

2. The ultimate form of self rationalization

"Our personalities don't match" and "You deserve a better person" are the signs of completing psychological segmentation behind these standardized breakup lines. At this point, all explanations point to the same goal: to make choices appear reasonable and irreversible.

Seeing these psychological trajectories is not to question love, but to protect oneself more clearly. A healthy relationship does not require detective like police When you start searching for evidence of love, the answer may already be obvious. True security always comes from a clear understanding of oneself, not promises from others.