No matter who you marry, these three words make your marriage as stable as a rock

Marriage is like a couple yoga, seemingly simple movements require tacit cooperation between both parties to maintain balance. Those couples who have gone through golden and silver marriages often do not rely on passionate love, but have engraved these three words into their daily lives.

1. A partner who is lazy is happier

1. Wisdom in household chores

Before throwing the cloth to your partner, think about it: Do you have to stack it into tofu cubes according to your standards? Allowing the other party to participate in household chores in their own comfortable way can stimulate initiative more than focusing on details. Occasionally pretending not to see the water stains on the coffee table may result in the other party voluntarily washing away the accumulated utensils.

2. Emotional Management Blank Area

Don't rush to become a life mentor when you find your partner feeling down. Passing a cup of hot tea and walking away quietly is more relaxing than asking 'what's wrong with you'. Leaving room for emotions to digest can actually lead to late night conversations where one actively confides.

2. "Knowing how to play dumb" is advanced emotional intelligence

1. Selective hearing loss training

When hearing sensitive words like "Your mom last time...", immediately activate the left in right out mode. Not all topics require a winner or loser. The more serious the conversation, the more intense the flames of war will be.

2. Praising Team Development Plan

It's better to sincerely say "This light and shadow is really good" than to secretly take selfies with a beauty camera. It was discovered that she had purchased scarves of the same style but different colors online. Instead of revealing them, it's better to praise the layered matching. Some harmless vanity is more important than the truth.

3. The relationship of daring to "play tricks" is more vivid

1. Creating childish moments

Suddenly snatching the remote control from the other person's hand and wrapping himself in a blanket to play the role of a silkworm baby who is fighting for territory. These childish behaviors that violate age can instantly break the formulaic relationship in marriage and awaken the heartbeat of dating back then.

2. Regular role reversal

Let him, who is quiet and reserved, take charge of ordering dishes, and send her, who is impatient, to plan the pace of the trip. Breaking the traditional division of labor through temporary role-playing not only allows for the discovery of each other's hidden skills, but also enables a renewed understanding of each other's daily pressures. The truly intelligent management of marriage is not to cultivate oneself into a perfect partner, but to cultivate the ability to accept imperfection. When you can burp and fart in front of each other, laugh at each other's sleep, but still want to share a cup of soybean milk in the morning, these three words become the most touching words.