Must see before marriage! These types of men are destined to endure hardships after marriage, women should not be foolish

My best friend, Xiao A, just broke up last month for a simple reason - after three years of dating, I realized that my boyfriend is a "moonlight lover" who spends all his salary on gaming equipment. These days, just looking at your face when looking for a partner is not enough. Some pitfalls have been hit, and the tears shed after marriage are all the water that came into your mind before marriage. Today, let's highlight for the girls which traits are like the "hardship warning signal" for walking.

1. Men with unstable economic ability

1. Severe imbalance between income and consumption

A man who earns 5000 yuan a month dares to buy 20000 yuan worth of sneakers, and his credit card bill is always in installments. Behind this consumption concept often lies a lack of responsibility and long-term planning, and after marriage, one may even have to calculate the cost of their child's formula.

2. Frequent job hopping without career planning

Even after changing three jobs in half a year, I always complain about missing out on my talents. A stable economic foundation is the cornerstone of a marriage. Occasional career adjustments are understandable, but being in a state of long-term turbulence requires vigilance.

2. Men with poor emotional management skills

1. Irritable and angry towards others

When driving in a congested area, they get angry and throw tantrums at the waiter when delivery is delayed. Emotions are like roller coaster companions, and they are likely to turn life into a disaster scene.

2. Dealing with conflicts with cold violence

After a quarrel, they often go missing for three days, and the problem is always dealt with in silence. This communication mode will turn marriage into a one-man show.

3. Men with abnormal family relationships

1. Overreliance on parents

At the age of thirty, they still need their mothers to help wash socks and leave their salary cards to their parents for safekeeping. Marriage is the union of two independent individuals, not finding a second mother.

2. Blurred sense of boundaries among family members

Sister enters the bedroom and flips through the wardrobe at any time, while parents interfere with every family decision. Marrying such a person is equivalent to marrying his entire family, and life will be like playing a palace intrigue.

4. Men with significant differences in values

1. Outdated understanding of female roles

believes that "women should take care of household chores" and regards "I take care of you" as charity. This difference in mindset will erupt after childbirth Contradiction of destiny.

2. Life goals go in opposite directions