Men's unspoken 'emotional needs' make relationships sweeter when women master them

Have you noticed that some boys would rather sit in the car for an extra ten minutes than go upstairs and go home immediately? They always say 'it's okay', but their brows furrow so much that they can kill mosquitoes. These emotional codes hidden behind silence are actually more worth deciphering than the "coax and hug" that girls often say.

1. Men also need to be recognized

1. The hidden thirst for achievement When he fixes the faucet or solves a work problem, there is a small expectation waiting to be praised behind the seemingly casual "okay". Just like a child who pretends not to care after getting a perfect score, the corner of their eye is actually observing your reaction.

2. Respect needs in professional fields

When questioned in their areas of expertise, boys may appear silent on the surface, but their inner drama is comparable to the eight o'clock shift. Try using 'How do you think this should be handled' instead of 'What you're doing is wrong', the effect is comparable to emotional lubricant.

2. Solitude is not cold violence

1. The necessity of cave time

Men handle emotions like old-fashioned computers - they need to "reboot" separately. Give him half an hour to stare at the fishing rod, or listen to a song in the underground garage, and when he comes out, his emotional buffer will be cleared.

2. Silence is another form of communication

Sitting side by side on the sofa, scrolling through each other's phones, and occasionally kicking each other's feet in quiet moments, may be more healing for boys than heart and lung deep night conversations. This kind of stress free companionship is what they see as high-end romance.

3. The feeling of being needed is very important

1. Moderately showing weakness stimulates protective desire

When unable to unscrew the bottle cap, handing over the bottle and naturally seeking help when lost, these careful functions make boys feel needed. But pay attention to the sense of propriety and don't portray strong female professionals in the workplace as low-energy individuals in daily life.

2. The sense of participation in a common goal

Assembling furniture together on weekends or having him teach you how to play a certain game, this "comrade in arms" collaborative experience, is more likely to make him feel a sense of belonging to "we are a team" than receiving gifts.

4. Body language is more effective than love words

1. The magic of touch

The hand naturally held when crossing the street, the hand casually rubbing his hair while watching TV, these casual small actions convey a sense of security that is equivalent to ten sentences of "I love you". Boys' ability to decode body language may exceed your imagination.

2. A smile is the best feedback

When he finishes telling a not funny joke, the rolled eyes but couldn't help but smile at the corner of his mouth are a hundred times more sincere than the perfunctory "hahaha". In their eyes, this kind of micro expression is the Morse code of love. In fact, men's emotional needs are like hidden levels, and the secrets to completing them are hidden in the details of daily life. The next time you see him staring blankly at the garage wall, don't rush to call to check on him, he may be recharging his love in his own way. Remember, a good relationship is not a mind reading competition, but learning to love in the way the other person needs it.