When emotions start to cool down, some details are like silent warning devices. Not all farewells require grand fanfare, more often than not, those small changes are the true barometer.

1. Subtle changes in body distance
1. Avoiding physical contact
The natural holding of hands has turned into deliberate avoidance, and the body becomes stiff like a wooden board when embracing. This physical distance is often a projection of psychological distance.
2. Reduce eye contact
The eyes are the window to the soul. When this window starts to close frequently and our gaze wanders during conversations, even intentionally looking at our phones or other places, it may indicate that interest is being lost.
3. Expansion of Private Space
Suddenly demands more alone time and talks about "wanting to be quiet". When personal boundaries are abnormally enlarged, it may be a signal of loose emotional connections.
2. Obvious change in communication mode
1. Response becomes perfunctory
The previous lengthy speeches have been reduced to monosyllabic replies of "um" and "oh", and the conversation is like playing a word chain, never lasting more than three rounds.
2. Share the desire to fall off a cliff
No longer actively confide in the interesting things you encountered today or the small troubles at work. When you ask, the answers you get are always like a towel that has been wrung out of water, unable to squeeze out more content.
3. Avoid future topics
When discussing next year's plans, suddenly change the topic and be vague when asked about long-term plans. The disappearance of the future tense often indicates the shaking of the present tense.
3. Abnormal adjustment of lifestyle habits
1. Sudden change in external image
Suddenly starting to exercise and lose weight, changing dressing styles, if accompanied by other signals, may not be just a simple self-improvement.
2. Abnormal social dynamics
The number of visible moments on social media has increased from six months to three days, and the frequency of posting has significantly decreased or inexplicably increased. This change in digital footprint is worth noting.
3. Irregular work schedule
Overtime suddenly increases, there are always new arrangements on weekends, and the time to go home is getting later and later. When there is an illogical adjustment in the pace of life, there may be unspoken reasons behind it.
Emotions are a duet, when the partner frequently steps on the wrong beat, there is no need to rush to conclusions, but it is necessary to maintain clear observation. Healthy relatives A confidential relationship requires both parties to maintain it together. When problems are discovered, honest communication is always more constructive than speculation.
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