Love is not just about words! If he doesn't do these things, don't believe any beautiful words

Saying 'drink more hot water' but not even helping you unscrew the thermos, the red envelope for the outdoor festival always stays at 5.2 yuan. Have you been hit by such a sweet blow? The love of contemporary young people has long passed the stage of listening to love, and action is the only criterion for testing sincerity.

1. Time investment is the most expensive gift

1. Reflection of priority

In the adult world, there is no "no time", only "I don't want to spend time for you". The person who always claims to be busy with work but can swim in the canyon for five hours suddenly learns to teleport when encountering emergency registration, which is called magical reality.

2. High quality companionship

Sitting side by side and playing with each other's phones is not called getting along. The person who remembers the sweetness of your milk tea may be more reliable than the one who says "I love you forever". The real companionship is to put down your phone and listen to your roast about your colleagues.

2. Body language is more honest than love words

1. Subconsciously protect

When crossing the street, naturally protect your outer elbow, and silently pick out the coriander you don't eat during meals. These muscle memories are more proof of habitual love than 999 roses.

2. Synchronization of Emotions

When you are happy, he has two more smile lines at the corners of his eyes than you, and when you are sad, he frowns so much that he can pinch a mosquito. This physiological reaction is much more convincing than the three words "I understand you".

3. The ability to solve problems determines the length of the relationship

1. Conflict resolution methods

People who proactively fix the refrigerator after an argument are more worthy of cherishing than those who write a ten thousand word self-criticism letter. Love is not without disputes, but rather someone willing to be the one who first lowers their head and picks up broken glass.

2. Participation in Future Planning

People who talk about the "future" may live in fairy tales, while those who silently study the transfer of social security policies between the two places Strategy is the real way to plan your future.

Next time you hear touching love words, you may want to check if the other person has set your medication reminder on their phone and observe if they remember the cake you casually mentioned last week that you wanted to eat. True love is hidden in tiny details like capillaries, after all, adult love has long passed the age of using ears to date.