It's not that men don't love you, but they really don't know how to do it!

There are always people complaining that straight men don't understand romance, but what they don't know is that the brain structure of male organisms may not even have the "emotion radar" program installed. Just like how cats can never learn a dog's passionate tail wagging, certain gender differences are really engraved in their genes.

1. Inherent weakness in emotion recognition ability

1. Differences in amygdala volume

The amygdala, which controls emotion perception, is generally about 15% smaller in size in males than females. This is like two mobile phones, one with a standard lens and the other with an ultra wide angle lens, which naturally produce different details in the captured images.

2. Mirror neuron activity

The key to empathy lies in the mirror neuron system. When women make emotional judgments, this area flashes frequently like neon lights, while men often only have a few scattered small light bulbs on.

2. Generation gap in language expression

1. Distribution characteristics of vocabulary

On average, males speak 7000 words per day, of which 6000 may be used for work and sports commentary. Out of the quota of 12000 words for women, 8000 words were allocated to emotional communication.

2. Differences in Dialogue Objectives

When a girl says "I'm so tired today", she is seeking emotional resonance, while a boy's first reaction to hearing this sentence is often to take out his phone and prepare to call for a chauffeur. This misalignment of goals is like two people playing different board games but using the same set of rules.

3. Instinct to Solve Problems

1. Operation mode of prefrontal cortex

When the male brain encounters a problem, the prefrontal cortex will immediately launch the "problem solving" program, just like the computer automatically pops up antivirus software. At this point, if the partner only wants to express their emotions, the system will experience a "program unresponsive" lag.

2. physiological limitations of multitasking

The corpus callosum of the female brain is thicker, equivalent to installing a high-performance router that can simultaneously handle emotional communication and other affairs. And men are like single core processors, unable to process other tasks in parallel when running "comfort programs".

4. Behavioral codes left by evolution

1. Remnants of thinking from hunting times

Ancient men needed to focus on tracking prey for hours, and this one-way thinking pattern has continued to this day. So modern men can accurately blow their heads in games, but they may not notice that their partners have changed their lipstick.

2. The instinctive choice of risk avoidance

When faced with emotional storms, men's primitive instinct tends to be more inclined towards "static avoidance". Just like antelopes on the grassland that freeze and remain motionless when in danger, this physiological response is often misunderstood as indifference.

Understanding these differences is not to excuse straight men, but to provide a practical 'transgender communication guide'. The next time your family member shows a confused expression, you can simply say, "Now I need you to hug for three minutes and then help me order milk tea." After all, no matter how sophisticated the biological system is, it cannot withstand clear user instructions.