Have you ever had such an experience? At the moment when someone's eyes met, I suddenly felt the air freeze; You know what the other person is going to say before they even speak; Although they are just ordinary colleagues, they can always lock each other in the crowd at a glance. These wonderful 'sensations' may be signals of heartbeat.
1. There are hidden mysteries in eye contact
1. The pupils unconsciously dilate
When seeing someone you like, the pupils naturally dilate by about 42%. This physiological reaction is completely uncontrollable, just like drooling when you see delicious food.
2. Eye contact time exceeds the norm
The average person's eye contact time during conversation is about 30% -60%, and people who have a good impression of each other will look at each other for even longer. If your eye contact always exceeds 3 seconds, it may not just be a matter of politeness.
3. Blinking eyes and unable to resist peeking
A small gesture that both wants to look at the other person a few more times and is afraid of being discovered. This contradictory behavior is called the "gaze avoidance pattern" in psychology.
2. Body language reveals the heart
1. Toe pointing towards the point of attention
Even when talking to others, the toe always unconsciously turns in a specific direction. This' foot pointing 'is more difficult to disguise than facial expressions.
2. Subtle imitation behavior
Accidentally synchronizing the other person's water drinking movements and hair tidying frequency. Mirror neurons allow us to instinctively imitate close people, which is the social glue of evolution.
3. The safety distance is broken.
The normal social distance is about 1.2 meters, but people who have a good impression of each other will naturally shorten it to within 0.5 meters. Pay attention to whether the other party approves of your entry into the kiss Close distance.
3. Emotional fluctuations become the norm
1. During chatting, the pitch of the voice unconsciously increases
Research has found that when facing a crush, the pitch of the voice of both men and women will automatically increase by about 20 hertz, which is the effect of courtship instinct.
2. Abnormal interaction on social media
Giving likes to someone's circle of friends is casual, but before giving them a like, one needs to carefully consider the copy. The browsing history shows that you always browse their homepage late at night.
3. Emotions fluctuate with the other person
When they send a message, you get excited, but when they don't reply, you get anxious. This emotional roller coaster is essentially a "fight" between dopamine and serotonin.
These sensors are like the body's built-in radar system, with an accuracy rate of up to 78% when three or more of them appear simultaneously. However, it should be noted that if these signals are detected in the workplace, it is recommended to confirm whether the other party is single before taking action. The most beautiful stage of a relationship is warmth In the game of guessing hearts in the dark, while enjoying the excitement, don't forget to maintain clear judgment.
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