If a woman shows these behaviors, it means she really bothers you. Don't put cold farts on her hot face share

Have you ever encountered a situation where you are genuinely sincere, but the other person always appears indifferent? Sending messages for half a day without replying, always hesitating to meet up, and even making eye contact perfunctory. In fact, these details are like "sub-health signals" emitted by the body, reminding you that there may be problems with your relationship. Today, let's decode the easily overlooked expressions of "emotional fatigue" and help you adjust your interaction patterns in a timely manner.

1. communication frequency drops sharply

1. Message replies enter the "Ice Age"

From seconds back to reincarnation, from full screen emojis to "um" and "oh" triple hits. When the green part in the dialog box becomes more and more, and the white part becomes less and less, it's like a sudden power saving mode, even punctuation marks are perfunctory. Pay attention to the change curve of response interval time, which can better reflect the true attitude than the stock market K-line chart.

2. The "anti addiction system" that rejects deep conversations

Every time the other person tries to discuss emotional issues, it feels like they have turned on message sharing without disturbing. Either use the excuse of 'overthinking' or suddenly start busy with work. No longer actively planning important holidays and being too lazy to argue, this "emotional energy-saving mode" is often more effective than the Cold War Fate.

2. Body language activation defense mechanism

1. Micro expression management gradually becomes ineffective

The curve of the mouth turning upwards becomes forced, and eye contact time is shortened to 3 seconds. When walking side by side, the body distance increases from 15 centimeters to half a meter, and these body measurements are more honest than language. Especially when hugging becomes patting the back and holding hands becomes pulling the wrist, it is basically equivalent to activating the "Do Not Disturb Mode".

2. Private Space Alert Line Upgrade

Suddenly attaches great importance to mobile phone secrets, and even takes a shower with a phone. Cancel the association of your social media account, and your Moments will not be visible to you. The sudden increase in this "territorial awareness" is like the safety distance set by wild animals, which is a subconscious rejection reaction.

3. Abnormal signals in social dynamics

1. Temperature difference in common circles

When you talk to friends at gatherings, she lowers her head and swipes her phone. When others make noise, she no longer blushes but frowns, and automatically stands at the farthest position when taking a group photo. The sense of alienation in these public settings is like pressing the mute button on a relationship.

2. Future plan: When discussing next year's plan, your character was not included in her version. No longer asking about your schedule, the travel plan has changed from 'us' to' me '. This grammatical change in the future tense is equivalent to a countdown to unloading emotional relationships.

When these signals appear three or more at the same time, don't comfort yourself anymore, it's "too close to exhaustion". The alienation of adults is never a temporary idea, but a long planned exit ceremony. It's better to leave warmth to those who know how to cherish it than to exhaust enthusiasm and become a "human warmth baby". Remember, a two-way relationship is worth adjusting your biological clock, waiting unilaterally will only consume energy. Now check your chat history, those neglected conversation bubbles may have been deleted long ago.

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