When a relationship comes to an end, women's changes are often more accurate than weather forecasts. The details that once touched your heart may be quietly turning into signals of alienation. Don't rush to deny it, first see if these signs have already appeared in your relationship.

1. The desire for communication plummeted sharply
1. The frequency of proactive contact sharply decreased
In the past, more than ten messages per day became perfunctory with "um" and "oh", and the number of initiated conversations was few and far between. She will no longer share what she had for lunch, nor will she take pictures of stray cats she meets on the roadside to show you.
2. Avoid deep communication
When you try to discuss future plans or emotional needs, she always uses excuses such as "let's talk" and "she's busy right now". I no longer prepare gifts carefully for important holidays, and I am too lazy to even argue.
2. Building a Wall with Body Language
1. Intimate Close contact significantly reduced
hugging became like completing a task, and lips stiffened like frozen jelly during kissing. The hand naturally held while shopping, now I always find an opportunity to take it away.
2. The demand for private space has surged.
Mobile phone screens are always tilted at a 45 degree angle, and when taking a shower, one must bring their phone into the bathroom. Suddenly, they become extremely obsessed with "personal alone time".
3. Abnormal social dynamics
1. You are not visible in your social circle
Frequent interactions and likes disappear, and she will never be able to see the updates you post. Her social media account was suddenly set to be visible for three days, or there were photos you haven't seen before.
2. Refuse to socialize together
Friends always find reasons to attend gatherings alone, and subconsciously distance themselves from acquaintances. When mutual friends ask about their current situation, her answers are always vague and ambiguous.
4. Future planning automatically blocks you
1. Major decisions will no longer be discussed
You will only be notified after the dust settles about changing jobs, renting a house, and travel plans. You noticed that her calendar is filled with events that you did not participate in.
2. Avoid long-term commitment topics
When it comes to meeting parents, cohabitation, and other topics, shift the focus and use the excuse of "not ready yet". The commemorative gift you gave was casually stuffed into the corner of the storage room by her.
5. Different emotional reactions
1. No longer jealous of you
I heard that you are different There is no response to the gathering of sexual colleagues, and the ex you deliberately mentioned cannot stir up any waves. This abnormal 'generosity' actually makes people feel cold.
2. Abnormal increase in tolerance
The small problem of getting angry in the past is now completely ignored, not becoming tolerant, but completely indifferent. Even if you forget the anniversary, she behaves like she received a promotional text message from a supermarket. Emotions are like ice in the palm of your hand, the tighter you hold them, the faster they melt. If you notice these signals, you may want to stop chasing first. True love is a two-way pursuit, and unilateral persistence will only exhaust the final emotional connection. Give each other space to think calmly, perhaps we can see the most authentic appearance of this relationship.
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