How many of the most devalued behaviors in marriage have you experienced?

Marriage is like a small shop jointly operated by two people. Some people live their lives as Michelin 3-star, while others boil their lives as Congee at the bottom of the pan. Those casual actions may be quietly lowering the quality of your relationship.

1. Treat complaints as daily communication

1. Treat negative emotions as family meals

From having salty breakfast to having the wrong air conditioning temperature, every sentence carries a thorn. This sustained low pressure will make partners avoid communication like hiding in a minefield.

2. Using comparative complaints to hurt people

"Everyone else's husband knows This type of sentence structure is like sprinkling salt on a wound, which not only fails to solve the problem, but also cracks the intimate relationship.

2. Take your partner's efforts for granted

1. Ignore the love in the details of life

Hot meals and tidy wardrobes are not what the other person is meant to do. Turning a blind eye for a long time will dampen their enthusiasm.

2. Treating economic contribution as a gold medal for exemption

Thinking that earning money means not participating in household chores and parenting, this unilateral demand will eventually tilt the balance.

3. Demolishing in Public

1. Using your partner's embarrassing moments as a topic of conversation

When friends gather, they spread rumors about their partner's embarrassing experiences, which actually overdraws their trust limit.

2. Singing the opposite tune in front of outsiders

Even if there are different opinions, the smart approach is to communicate at home. Publicly refuting is like nailing a nail into a relationship wall.

4. Replacing Communication with Cold War

1. Using Silence as a Weapon

Refusing to communicate with cold violence is more emotionally damaging than arguing, as it can escalate small conflicts into big problems.

2. It's a habit to wait for the other person to bow down first.

Always ask your partner to be the one who breaks the deadlock. Playing this power game too much will only lead to mutual harm.

5. Excessive interference in personal space

1. Check job style interaction

Always locate and check call records, this suffocating feeling will make the other party lose faster like tightly clenched sand.

2. Deny the other person's interests and hobbies

Personal hobbies within the healthy range are pressure reducing valves, forcibly depriving will only create more conflicts. A good marriage requires regular "dust removal" to sweep these depreciating behaviors into the trash can. Try to discover the strengths of a partner every day and give them a sincere hug. These small things accumulate to become the most expensive marriage care products. Remember, never let the people closest to you become trash cans for your negative emotions.