How are women doing after marriage? The key lies in this sentence

That day, at my best friend's gathering, the topic suddenly shifted to married life. Some people roast that her husband never does housework, and some people show off that her mother-in-law cooks soup every day, but the most heart piercing feeling is that a sisters sighs: "My current state is all written on my face." Indeed, the mirror never lies, and those subtle lines, darkness and fatigue that cannot be hidden have exposed the truth of marriage.

1. Skin status is a barometer of marriage

1. The complexion is more honest than liquid foundation

No matter how expensive the foundation make-up is, it can not cover the sallow complexion, which may be more illustrative than the physical examination report. Long term emotional stress can lead to an increase in cortisol, a "stress hormone" that directly damages the skin barrier, causing enlarged pores and deepening pigmentation. To observe a woman's marital quality, sometimes all you need to do is look at the radiance of her skin after removing makeup.

2. The time difference of marriage hidden around the eyes

Staying up late to take care of the child and insomnia anxiety are two completely different types of dark circles under the eyes. The former is usually accompanied by swelling under the eyes, while the latter can form bluish gray vascular dark circles. Even more heart wrenching is that when the happiness hormone oxytocin is insufficient, small dry lines will appear at the end of the eyes in advance.

2. Help signals from the body

1. Hidden burden on the shoulders

Many married women experience inexplicable shoulder and neck pain, which is not solely caused by household chores. When in a long-term state of "widowed parenting" or emotional neglect, the body will unconsciously adopt a defensive posture, and the trapezius muscle will continue to tense like carrying an invisible sandbag.

2. Protests from the digestive system

Sudden bloating and constipation may be indicative of emotional gastrointestinal syndrome. The gut is known as the 'second brain', and suppressed emotions in marriage can directly affect the balance of gut microbiota. It's interesting that some people often use the "happy fat" after marriage as evidence of sweetness, but sudden weight loss is even more alarming.

3. Small details that cannot be hidden

1. Backward movement speed of hairline

Pressure type hair loss is more aggressive than age-related hair loss. If you notice a sudden increase in hair loss during shampooing and an M-shaped receding hairline, it may be a sign that your body is protesting against being in a high-pressure state for a long time. Don't rush to buy anti stripping shampoo, first see if it's time to loosen yourself.

2. Degree of finger care

Hands that undergo regular nail art before marriage may become dry and prickly after marriage, and this change is often not a matter of time. When a person cannot even squeeze out enough time to apply hand cream, it usually means that she is operating at an overload. The aging rate of hand skin to some extent reflects the degree of lack of self-care. Marriage should not be a chronic consumable. If you find yourself becoming increasingly unfamiliar in the mirror, consider adjusting your lifestyle as an important project. From tonight's serious application of facial mask to the weekend's two-hour vacation, these small self care will eventually accumulate into the power of change.