Five moments of complete disappointment for a woman, one of which may make her feel cold and leave

When expectations repeatedly fail, when care turns into perfunctory, even the warmest heart will slowly cool down. The overlooked details are often the pressure The last straw that breaks down emotions.

1. Never find someone when needed

1. Play and disappear in emergency situations

When sick, you can't even wait for a cup of hot water, and when frustrated at work, you are stingy with comforting words. Not answering the phone, not responding to messages, and casually mentioning 'busy' afterwards, this kind of absence is more hurtful than arguing.

2. Always absent on important days

Blow out the candles on the birthday cake and finish the dinner on the anniversary alone. When the sense of ceremony is casually broken, the meaning of existence begins to blur.

2. Promises become empty promises

1. Saying to change forever next time

Quit smoking and drinking for three years, and persisted in the habit of littering socks for five years. It's not that we can't do it, it's just that we don't value the person who expects change enough.

2. She is not in the future plan.

When discussing buying a house, she remains silent and changes the topic when talking to her parents. The essence of procrastination is often proof of not loving enough.

3. Emotions are treated as making a mountain out of a molehill [SEP]. When emotions are constantly denied, the door to the heart will gradually close.

2. Silence is misunderstood as a cold war

Although it is digesting emotions, it is labeled as "doing". Sometimes the most thorough departure is the one that is neither noisy nor noisy.

4. Giving is taken for granted

1. Household chores become a solo marathon

After finishing a meal, I see a pile of dishes in the sink, and while hanging clothes, I find a new load in the washing machine. A life maintained unilaterally will eventually become tiring.

2. Intentions are treated casually

Carefully prepared meals are eaten with a phone, and handwritten cards accumulate dust in the delivery box. The tenderness that is not cherished will eventually be taken back.

5. continuously being belittled in comparison

1. Outsiders are always better

"A certain girlfriend is good at dressing up", "A colleague's wife earns a million yuan a year". Comparison does not make people improve, only makes their hearts regress.

2. Disadvantages are repeatedly magnified

Forgetting to take out the trash has become irresponsible, buying the wrong flavor is not putting in the effort. When advantages become background boards, disadvantages become the main focus under the spotlight. Emotions are like bank accounts, withdrawing too much without depositing it will eventually lead to bankruptcy. Those unspoken disappointments are silently calculating the cost of leaving. Discovering these danger signals in a timely manner may be able to salvage that heart that is about to cool down.