In the cold winter wind howling, when boys wrap their coats tightly and look handsome, some actions may seem gentlemanly but actually make girls frown wildly. These self proclaimed cool actions may be quietly eroding your impression score.

1. Swinging coat to give up seat
1. Fake action recognition
Suddenly getting up on the subway and shaking the coat, the fabric almost threw onto the neighbor's face, and then pretended to be carefree and made a "smart" gesture; Please; The gesture. This way of giving up seats often leaves girls scrambling to catch the fluttering hem of their clothes. It's better to fold their coat and get up honestly.
2. Temperature Trap
When the heating on winter buses is insufficient, forcing girls to sit on the cold bench by the window. On the surface, it may seem modest, but in reality, it makes people stand in front of the leaking window Se trembled, occupying the warm breeze with a proud expression on her face.
2. Dictators in the Ordering Industry
1. Health Kidnapping
Announce without waiting for the other party to speak; Girls cannot eat ice; Changing hot drinks to room temperature without authorization. Eating ice cream appropriately in winter will not affect health, but this forced decision-making posture is truly uncomfortable.
2. Invisible control
emphasizes continuously when placing orders; This is too oily; " That's too spicy; In fact, it is imposing one's own dietary preferences on others. The true grace is to hand over the menu and say, '; You choose first; Instead of playing the role of a food safety inspector.
3. Overly protected street performers
1. Traffic light deception behavior
When the sidewalk green light is on, they insist on grabbing the girl's wrist and saying; Danger ";. This kind of behavior that portrays normal crossing of the road as a matter of life and death speed is meaningless except for creating embarrassment.
2. Elevator Space Invasion
Suddenly circle with your arm when entering the elevator; Safe Zone "; In reality, it forces people into a corner and immobilizes them. Maintaining an appropriate distance is more comfortable than this exaggerated protective action. True grace is built on respect and comfort. Instead of pursuing dramatic gentlemanly performances, it's better to learn to approach every detail with a calm mind. Before taking action next time, it's worth observing the other person's true needs, as the highest level of consideration is to get along with them comfortably.
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