Don't deceive yourself anymore! Men who exhibit these behaviors are no longer in love

When I was scrolling through my phone late at night, I suddenly saw my best friend send me a series of exclamation marks: "He actually said I was being unreasonable!" The accompanying picture is the cold "whatever you think" sentence from the chat record. Is this conversation inexplicably familiar? The biggest fear in relationships is not arguments, but the feeling of powerlessness when punched on cotton.

1. Suddenly becoming a "topic terminator"

1. From being talkative to cherishing words like gold

People who used to share even a few buns for breakfast now reply to messages like telegrams. You enthusiastically talk about the interesting things you encountered today, and the other person only responds with a "hmm"; When you ask him about his weekend plans, the answer is always' it's okay '. Pay attention to observation. If this state persists for more than two weeks, it may not be as simple as being busy with work.

2. Avoid deep communication

Whenever you want to discuss issues in your relationship, he either suddenly has to work overtime or starts watching short videos. Important holidays always forget to prepare surprises, but game equipment updates are even more timely than alarms. This selective forgetfulness is essentially expressing a negative attitude.

2. Body language does not deceive people

1. Kiss Close contact sharply reduced

Holding hands feels like holding a colleague, hugging feels like completing a task. The hand that used to naturally protect your shoulders when crossing the street is now always in your pocket. More notably, the sense of ritual before bedtime has disappeared - the habits of goodnight kisses and hugging chats have been replaced by playing with phones back-to-back.

2. Micro expressions cannot hide

He doesn't even lift his eyelids when you change your hairstyle, but he noticed when the female colleague changed her mouth to a red one. What's really scary is not the blush and thick neck during arguments, but the fact that when he looks at you, his eyes no longer have that sparkling light.

3. Social circle abnormality

1. Always wanting to act alone at gatherings

A friend suddenly refuses to bring you to a wedding, and the reason for the class reunion has changed from "bringing you to meet me" to "being a big man is boring". More obviously, social media updates either completely block you or only show profile or distant views when posting photos.

2. Turn your phone into a "nuclear password box"

When taking a shower, bring your phone into the bathroom, and the WeChat prompt tone will vibrate. When scrolling through social media, intentionally turn the screen to the side. These actions may not necessarily represent substantial betrayal, but at least they indicate that some desire to share has shifted the focus.

4. Future planning without you

1. Avoid long-term commitments

When you say "I want to change to a bigger house next year," he immediately responds with "the current housing prices are unstable; When you mention it to the parents, they say 'wait a little longer'. All discussions about the future will be cleverly transformed by him into technical analysis that is' not yet ripe '.

2. The economic boundary suddenly becomes clear

Starting from the people who used to rush to pay, the AA system is calculated to the decimal point, and giving you gifts has changed from carefully selecting to perfunctory transfer. More obviously, they are starting to argue about the ownership of "my house" and "your car", just like doing property notarization for a breakup in advance.

Emotions are most afraid of the frog like consumption of warm boiled water. If more than half of the above signals persist for a long time, perhaps it is time to backup the "emotional first aid kit": talk to trusted friends, cultivate new hobbies to shift attention, and seek professional psychological counseling if necessary. Remember, a withered potted plant can be saved by changing the soil in time, but when the roots rot completely, it can only be thrown away.