Don't be silly! Men should let go of these behaviors

Seeing my boyfriend always holding his phone and giggling foolishly, but ignoring you; I made plans to have dinner together over the weekend, but when I arrived, I said I had to work overtime; He didn't even show any concern when you got sick and had a fever These seemingly insignificant details may indicate that a relationship is coming to an end.

1. Serious imbalance in emotional investment

1. You are always the one taking the initiative

Every time we go on a date, you propose, and in conversations, you always find topics to talk about. Even if we reconcile after an argument, you have to bow down first. Unilateral giving is like pouring water into a bottomless pit, it will eventually exhaust your enthusiasm.

2. Refuse to engage in deep communication

When you try to discuss future plans or emotional needs, he either changes the topic or is perfunctory. A healthy relationship requires two-way emotional flow, not one person's solo performance.

3. Always absent from important moments

Birthdays and anniversaries are never remembered, and when you encounter difficulties, he always has reasons not to be present. People who truly care about you will place you at the top of their priority list.

2. Behavior pattern shows danger signals

1. Frequent loss of contact

Play and disappear frequently, and only reply to messages the next day. When asked, say "busy with work". No matter how busy an adult is, they cannot go 24 hours without looking at their phone unless they don't want to contact you at all.

2. Social circle completely isolated

I haven't seen his friends for half a year in love, and I never post any photos of you on my social circle. This deliberate concealment often means that he has not taken the relationship seriously.

3. Promise always stays in words

Promising to meet with parents but procrastinating, never changing the habits that were promised to be changed. Promises made without action are like empty promises that can never be fulfilled.

3. Continuous decrease in self-worth

1. Becoming anxious

You, who were originally confident, start to doubt yourself, repeatedly checking your phone, and guessing the underlying meaning of every word he says. A good love should make you love yourself more, rather than getting lost in anxiety.

2. Continuously lowering the bottom line

He kept getting better and better Jie, you forgive time and time again. Tolerance will not exchange for appreciation, it will only give the other party an advantage. Your tolerance is expensive, it should be reserved for those who deserve it.

3. Losing focus on life

In order to fit his schedule, you gave up fitness, gatherings, and even job opportunities. Healthy relatives A close relationship is two independent individuals walking side by side, rather than one giving up the whole world for the other. When a relationship brings you more pain than happiness, more growth than consumption, perhaps you should reevaluate its value. Love should not be a compromise of compromise, but a tacit understanding of mutual achievement. Remember, timely stop loss is not a failure, but a new beginning for oneself.