Don't be fooled by sweet words! 5 obvious signals that men don't have you in their hearts

Do you think his daily "good morning, good night" is true love? Does liking a crazy demon on social media necessarily mean being sincere? Wake up, girl. Some behaviors may seem sweet on the surface, but in reality, they may just be mass-produced assembly line operations. Today, let's take a look at those sugar coated "hollow chocolate" behaviors and help you quickly identify "ineffective investments" in relationships.

1. Always stay in the low cost paying stage

1. Language giant and action dwarf

can compile a dictionary with full screen of unfashionable love words, but if you say you want to eat the cake in the west of the city, he will always reply "take you next time". True concern will suddenly appear across half a city, rather than letting promises accumulate dust in chat records.

2. Time allocation exposure priority

When playing a game and saying "it's about to end" in seconds, you say you're working overtime when you're sick. Where adults spend their time, their hearts are there. This principle is even more accurate than astrology.

2. Avoid any deep emotional connections

1. The topic always floats on the surface

You can chat about celebrity gossip for three months, but when it comes to childhood experiences, change the topic. In psychology, this is called "emotional avoidance", like putting a glass ceiling on a relationship, visible but unable to touch the truth.

2. Refuse to plan for a shared future

When you say you want to have a cat, he responds with "stray cats are quite cute." When you bring it up to your parents, he immediately says, "It's too early to talk about this now. Behind all the vague statements, there is a hidden message that 'I have no intention of staying with you for a long time'.

3. The social account hides a secret garden

1. The sense of online existence suddenly evaporates

There are ex girlfriend's daily likes in the Weibo follow list, but Tiktok has set "invisible" for you. A truly dedicated person will take the initiative to give you a sense of security, rather than letting you be a detective in the slightest hint.

2. Refuse to integrate with the real social circle

After being in a relationship for six months, I haven't seen any of his friends, and their photos will always only exist on your phone. This is not low-key, it's about leaving a way out at any time.

4. The body is more honest than the mouth

1. Kiss Close contact with a sense of completing tasks

When hugging, the arms are suspended without force, and kissing is like putting a film on a phone. Body linguists have said that subconscious bodily reactions are the weather stations of true emotions.

2. Maintain a safe distance in public places

When crowded on the subway, suddenly become a gentleman's figurehead, and always sit diagonally at friend gatherings. This kind of 'social distance management' is comparable to celebrities' anti scandal measures. Who do you think he is really guarding against?

V. Emotional value is a one-way street

1. Selective failure of empathy ability

When you complain about work, he immediately says "who is not tired", and when you share joy, he replies "what is there". Being unable to withstand emotions and pouring cold water is simply an energy-saving mode in emotions.

2. You always need to take the initiative to compromise.

After an argument, you wait for an apology, and dates always follow his schedule. A relationship of one-way compromise is like a crooked neck tree, it will eventually break.

Actually, there's no such thing as "suddenly not loving", all departures are premeditated. When you start comparing this article item by item, the answer is already in your mind. Remember, good love is a two-way power bank, not a one-sided blood donation station. Winter is perfect for organizing interpersonal relationships and leaving warmth for those who deserve it.