Don't be fooled! A man who truly loves you would do this

When the comments on social media such as "The man who loves you will definitely give you XX" and "Not doing these things is not enough love," do you feel that these standards are like labels on supermarket shelves - neat and uniform but without warmth? Emotions are never assembly line products, and those wildly circulated "love formulas" may be causing you to miss the most authentic warmth. People who truly care about you will integrate their concern into the fabric of life.

2. Allow you to have "imperfect moments"

where you can appreciate the delicacy of your makeup and face the embarrassment of blowing your nose when you have a cold. I won't demand that you always maintain a perfect image, let alone use the framework of 'what a girl should do' to constrain you. This kind of relaxation is the true essence of intimacy The most precious foundation of close relationships.

2. Action is the unit of measurement for love

1. Turn promises into to-do lists

Many people say "drink more hot water", but few silently put goji berries and red date tea on your desk. To judge sincerity, don't listen to declarations and watch performances. It's important to see if they translate what they say into concrete actions, even if it's just remembering that you dislike eating cilantro.

2. Reaction during conflicts shows sincerity.

When arguing, should we first calm our emotions or argue for right or wrong? In the Cold War, should we be angry and avoid or actively break the ice. These stress reactions cannot deceive people, just like sneezing cannot hide love naturally.

III. Growing Together is Longtermism

1. Being life partners with each other

helps you analyze the pros and cons of career choices, supports you in developing new interests and hobbies, and even encourages you to undergo regular check ups. A good relationship is like a duet, it requires both tacit cooperation and space for each other to rotate.

2. Respect your independent personality

will not require you to give up your social circle to prove loyalty, will not interfere with your normal consumption choices, and will not use the name of "for your own good" to hijack your decisions. Healthy love is like two trees growing side by side, not tangled vines.

Next time you see those popular articles that say "what should I do when I love you", why not turn my phone upside down. What is truly worth cherishing is always the person who remembers that you are not allowed to touch ice drinks during your menstrual cycle, but never posts on social media to promote yourself. Life is not a romantic drama, the sense of steady flow is more touching than any dramatic plot.