be vigilant! A man's behavior shows that he only wants his body

The warmest bed in winter cannot compare to the sudden "enthusiasm" of some people, which can be chilling. The most I have received many private messages from girls recently, all asking the same question: Does he really like me or has another motive? In fact, the answer has long been hidden in the details, just like the Sichuan peppercorns in hot pot, which cannot be seen on the surface, but can be known how numb they are with just a bite. Today, let's talk about the danger signals hidden behind sweetness, and help you open your eyes and see the truth clearly.

One, eager to promote intimacy Secret relationship

1. Making excessive demands after only a few days of knowing each other

just added WeChat and started to get angry Unclear information, wanting to hold hands and kiss after two dates, hinted at opening a room after knowing each other for a week This kind of fire The arrow like way of advancing a relationship often exposes the other party's true purpose. The normal development of emotions requires time to settle, just like simmering soup over low heat to taste.

2. Immediately become indifferent after rejection

When you make it clear that you want to take it slow, the other person immediately becomes unresponsive and even uses "you don't love me" as a moral blackmail. People who truly care about you will respect your rhythm, just like in winter when you have to dress layer by layer, no one will force you to wear a down jacket directly.

2. Only contact you late at night

1. Always busy during the day

Every time I talk to him, he says he's in a meeting, working overtime, or socializing, but he becomes particularly active after 10 pm. This day night reversed mode of communication is likely that you are just one of his options for relieving loneliness.

2. Single chat content

Other than "what are you doing" and "thinking about you" I don't engage in casual conversations, I never share my daily life, and I don't care about my work or friends. A healthy relationship should be like the sunshine in winter, which can warm each other and illuminate every corner of life.

3. Refuse emotional involvement

1. Avoid future topics

When it comes to meeting parents, say it's still early, change the topic when asked if they want to live together, and always consider only two days and one night when planning vacation travel. This attitude of avoiding long-term commitments often means that he has no intention of taking it seriously.

2. Economically calculating

Eating is always AA, gifts do not exceed three figures, but your birthday implies going to a high-end hotel. Normal effort is mutual, just like in winter when you have to pay for both heating and electricity, the relationship of unilateral demand will eventually be cut off.

4. Complete isolation of social circle

1. Never take you to meet friends

After being in a relationship for more than three months, you still know nothing about his social circle. There are no photos of you in your phone album, and your social media never mentions you. Behind this deliberate distance, there are often hidden secrets.

2. Avoid your social circle

Every time you say your friends are gathering, he finds excuses to avoid it, and he gets restless when he sees your best friend. People who truly want to develop with you will naturally integrate into each other's life circle like wearing a scarf in winter.

Fifth, emotional value stingy

1. Only enthusiastic when there is a need

Usually, messages circulate, but at certain specific moments, they are particularly attentive. This intermittent enthusiasm is like an air conditioner in winter, only turning it on when needed and turning it off after use.

2. Never care about your emotions

You work overtime until late at night without asking if it's safe to get home, and if you have a cold or fever, you only say to drink more hot water. dear. The most important thing in a close relationship is emotional resonance. How can someone who cannot even provide basic care treat each other sincerely? A truly trustworthy person is like a winter hand warmer, with stable and long-lasting temperature. And those who are constantly hot and cold may not even plan to plug in the charging cable of the hand warmer for a long time. When you start to doubt this relationship, the answer is often already clear. Remember, your body and heart are precious, don't give them to someone who doesn't deserve them.