A must see for couples! These 3 'things' make you love each other until old age

Seeing the elderly couple with white hair walking hand in hand on the street, I can't help but smile. The best form of love is probably to be vigorous when young, and to be able to support each other to buy groceries when old. But in reality, long-term kinship Secret relationships often require more tangible 'equipment' than romance.

1. Emotional first aid kit: Band aids to resolve daily friction

1. Pause button

When arguing, the words that rush to the mouth are often like boiling water, which can easily burn people. Install a pause button for emotions, even if it's just for each person to calm down for ten minutes before the steam dissipates and the other person's expression can be seen clearly.

2. Translator

"Why did you throw your socks around again" may hide the expectation of "I hope our home is tidier". Try to translate complaints into needs, just like converting a strange foreign language into your mother tongue, so that the other party can understand your true feelings.

3. Memory card

There are notes exchanged during love in the bedside drawer, and the phone photo album is set to last year's birthday surprise. These are not ordinary pieces of paper and pixels, but "beautiful memory ATM cards" that can be accessed at any time.

2. Growing Together Charging Station: A Endurance Equipment to Combat Aesthetic Fatigue

1. New Skill Copy

Register for baking or camping skill classes together. During flour wars or tent building chaos, you will rediscover the other person's childlike side, which is more effective than changing hairstyles.

2. Independent power mode

Retaining one's own circle of interest is like turning on a power-saving mode on a phone. During moments of solitude such as friend gatherings and live sports broadcasts, it can actually make the battery more full when we meet again.

3. Double progress bar

Set several common small goals each year, such as finishing a certain book or learning a certain dish. Just like team tasks in games, the sense of achievement in completing them will skyrocket the level of tacit understanding.

3. Health Joint Account: Deposit enough capital to grow old together

1. Sleep Partner

Discuss a mutually acceptable bedtime, where synchronized breathing in the dark helps sleep better than any white noise. Staying up late to use your phone? That's overdrawing your health savings.

2. Exercise supervisor

Replace "Do you want to go for a walk" with "Reward milk tea if you walk 6000 steps today" and use gamified methods to encourage each other. The endorphins produced after exercise are natural preservatives for love.

3. Dietary Allies

Instead of blaming each other for "not eating junk food", it's better to develop a low calorie version of spicy hotpot together on weekends. A healthy diet is never a punishment, but a new replica developed by you together. A true good relationship is not one that never wears out, but one that is like the wood of an old house, with scratches that make it even more warm. Those late night lights and warm morning water are more enduring than diamonds. Starting today, deposit more 'health assets' into your relationship account.